i have never had sex before, i'm not
planning on it anytime soon. But i'm
scared that because i'm going into
highschool, that there is going to be more
pressure for having sex. Yeah there is
already quite a bit of pressure now, but I
dont want to break upder the pressure now.
I have a boyfriend, and I know skyler
wants to have sex. I told him that I
didnt want to and he understood. But now
he is pressuring me even more since we are
in highschool. Cause "everybodys doing
it" yeah maybe I want to a little
but I really dont know how. And I know
that he doesnt either. I just dont want
to mess up. I want to do it the right
way.
If anyone has advice..I would be sure to
take it!
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 08-06-04 14:36pm
From ur past posts about suicide attempts
and cutting, I dont think ur ready 2
assume the responsibilities that come with
sex....If yur suicidal u need help, not
sex hun...Just my advice, dont take it tha
wrong way
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 08-06-04 14:45pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-09-04 15:27pm; edited 1 time in total
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 08-06-04 15:49pm
Couldn't agree more with the other 2
posts.
If you are going to have sex then you have
to be capable of accepting the risks of
parenthood.
Ask yourself (when sober and straight -
not saying you aren't but for any others
that may read this for advice). Look in
the mirror, look yourself in the eye and
say "am I ready for sex, is this what I
really want?" if you can say honestly to
yourself the answer is yes - then perhaps
you are ready.
If you think maybe I am, I might like it
but... Then you definately are not
ready.
Good luck be strong
kia
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 08-06-04 16:41pm
I agree too. Your virginity is sooo
special. Think of it as your most prized
possession. You've got to make sure the
person you give it to is going to be
sticking around forever! And high school
is way to early to make those kinds of
decisions. I was a virgin up until the
day I was married, and I am soooo glad.
Sex is definitely one of those things that
you've .G.O.T to make up your mind about
before anything happens. That way, you
aren't stuck making a decision under the
influence of alcohol, drugs, horomones,
peer pressure, whatever.
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 08-07-04 10:28am
~*~bree~*~bree~*~
wrote:
i dont think that many
people know how serious it is to have
depression, so many days that all I wanna
do it cry, and I think about what it would
be like or if people would care if I just
died, with this depression my mind is numb
to the feeling of people loving me, I
think that not many people really and
truly love me, and that scares the living
crap outta me. The medicine is helping
and I am clamer that I have ever been! I
just need to get over the cutting and
suicide attempts...
this is a past post---u pm me an say ur
not suicidal and never tried...Hmmm...I
dont care 4 gods sakes! Do wut uu
want---have 12 kids...I got other things
to worry about not ur stupid, omg
highschool, pressure--blahdy blah
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but I really dont know how. And I know
that he doesnt either. I just dont want
to mess up. I want to do it the right
way.
