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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Need Help In the Next 30 Min Please!!!
Posted: 08-06-04 18:25pm
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Ok everyone I have a choice to make..
Ryan, the dad, wants me to bring garret
over tonite which is normal.. But his
family is all coming over to see him..
Normally I stay of course because I dont
wanna leave him with them...But ryan wants
me to leave him today for an hour or 2
sence his family is coming.. My parents
dont want me leaving the baby with him
without me yet either, but they said it
would be ok to sence his fam is all going
to be there.. I admit I would feel a
little weird sitting there with all his
family but I dont tihnk I wanna leave
him!! Or should I just be 'mature'and do
it for a little while?? Please be
honest! Thanks!!! O yea, by the way, I
already told ryan no I wont leave him, but
that means they will make me feel even
more unwelcome cuz he got piised,,,,but I
kno I will have to eventually be ok with
thhis. .But I feel like its so soon  .......But I dont
wanna be ridiculously picky either.. But
hes only 3 weeks tomorrow! And he has no
real 'rights' yet till court..
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 08-06-04 18:31pm
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I wouldnt do anything that your not
comfortable with however if he pays child
support he will have the right to keep the
baby alot more so you may want to leave
him there for an hour or so just to let
yourself get used it. Hey you may learn
to enjoy your time away without the baby
once you get more comfortable! 
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tweety12986
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Joined: 25 Jun 2004
Posts: 772
Location: houston
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Posted: 08-06-04 18:39pm
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I dont think you should leave him there he
is just too young and besides you are not
comfortable with the whole situation so
dont leave him.
Meagan
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004
Posts: 647
Location: Alabama
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Posted: 08-06-04 19:01pm
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If you arent comfortable, then dont do it!
Just remember...You are the mom! Maybe
you could take someone with you so its not
just you and his family! Hope it goes
well!
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-06-04 19:16pm
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I hope I am not too late but no. Don't
leave him, ya never know they could be
trying to kidnap him or something.
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mommabear16
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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hotasfrick
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Posts: 3717
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Posted: 08-07-04 06:36am
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What happened honey? Hope it all went
okay.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Im Back~
Posted: 08-07-04 09:25am
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Hey everyone! Thanks alot for your
opinions! I went to his house and didnt
leave him.I was there for 3 hours tho!
Its ok.. I dont talk to ryan ever when im
there at all actually. Its kinda weird
how were like strangers now. But yea, his
family was surprisingly nice. I felt a
little outta place but it all went ok.
Later b4 I left I heard him and his
girlfriend arguing on the phone about me..
He kept saying he swore his parents were
home and he promises and was saying to her
' please dont be mad' bla bla bla. Lmao
im glad they were fighting because I dont
like either of them! Anyhow, *** thanks
again!
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linuxChique
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Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 08-07-04 09:41am
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Haha!! I'm glad you stayed.
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-07-04 10:26am
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Me 2....I would have told him straight to
this face, did you carry thjis baby for 9
months? Did you eat right? Did you gain
weight and get stretch marks? Did you
spend 1/10 of the amount of money I did?
Didn't think so. Now when you go through
all that and more, you can tell me what
your rights are because right now they
don't even exist. Lol. Im a health
forum! And I love it! My mom said that
when we get child support started that
dewitt could try to get unsupervised
visitation and i'm like o hell no....I
think I would slap the judge in the face.
Nobody is taking my son anywhere that far
without me. So there! Lol! Im rambling!
Sorry but im glad it went well hun! I
wouldnt have even taken him over there.
What the hell gives him the right to even
bask in garrets glory after he denied him
for 9 months? caca I say! lmao!
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-07-04 11:14am
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I feel the same way. I know they say
parent should have equal rights , but it
is not true, b/c mean do have to go though
anything that we do. I was about to make
a long post, but I am pissed.
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nikki_caro
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Posts: 4930
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-07-04 11:29am
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Good im glad you stayed there kari, I woud
have too. Just because he wants to have
the baby there doesnt mean you will leave,
not until he pays child support at least!
You did all this work not him! He goes by
what you say! Let him and his girlfriend
fight! Lol
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sweetangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2004
Posts: 305
Location: Fort Stockton Texas
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What U Think Is Best
Posted: 08-07-04 13:49pm
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if you have
already explained i'm sorry and I dont
know where i've been but i'm gona ask
anyhow. Whats the deal with u and the
baby's daddy?
i think if u
feel secure enough then you should, but
if you dont do what you
think is best
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 08-07-04 17:21pm
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Hey hun, most the girls know but ur new
and I havent posted it recently. Me and
the father are not together, he was very
mean and unsupportive for my whole
pregnancy, pushed abortion etc, and he has
had a new girlfriend for 8 months now. He
wants to see garret and does visit him
now, but I verrrry much dislike him , I
just try to be civil now for garrets sake.
He didnt even supposibly believe it was
his 100% because he had a new girlfriend
and she tried to convince him that I was
sleeping around so he payed 500 bucks for
a paternity test which I lmao now because
he wasted his mommys money and I knew 100%
that it was his*
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bd1012
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Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 08-07-04 18:20pm
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I'm blinded by sweetangels font color!!
Sheesh, as if i'm not going blind by
staring at this computer screen!! Now I
got neon pink and yellow thrown at me.
Lol 
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sweetangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2004
Posts: 305
Location: Fort Stockton Texas
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Posted: 08-07-04 18:49pm
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| karim1804
wrote: | | hey hun, most the girls
know but ur new and I havent posted it
recently. Me and the father are not
together, he was very mean and
unsupportive for my whole pregnancy,
pushed abortion etc, and he has had a new
girlfriend for 8 months now. He wants to
see garret and does visit him now, but I
verrrry much dislike him , I just try to
be civil now for garrets sake. He didnt
even supposibly believe it was his 100%
because he had a new girlfriend and she
tried to convince him that I was sleeping
around so he payed 500 bucks for a
paternity test which I lmao now because he
wasted his mommys money and I knew 100%
that it was his* |
oh ok I get it know.
| bd1012
wrote: | | i'm blinded by sweetangels
font color!! Sheesh, as if i'm not going
blind by staring at this computer screen!!
Now I got neon pink and yellow thrown at
me. Lol |
sorry im a colorful person. Lol
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hotasfrick
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 08-07-04 22:33pm
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I'm glad you stayed. That definately
seems best!
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caligirl1504
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2004
Posts: 8
Location: onterio cali
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Posted: 08-08-04 04:36am
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I think you made the right decision by
going and staying. After all he is only 3
weeks.
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