Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
I Hate Him! Posted: 08-09-04 14:52pm
God I hate tim! Hes bein such an ass
right now I cant even stand to look at
him. I leave to go out with my mom for
half an hour to go cut my dads hair and
run uptown, and he acts like I just ran
out on him or something. He leaves me
here with the baby, is acting like a dick
and im so frustrated I cant take it! I
know lately ive been b**ching lots and im
sorry but its just too much! I dont know
how things are going to g for me and tim..
I dontknow if its going to work.. Its so
hard. I hate this. I love danica soooooo
much and I wanna just get up and go out
but I dont wanna leave her... I wanna
take her wit me to my moms but I know tim
would freak out if I was gone. Hes being
so... Ugh!!!!! God its prolly the baby
blues again but I feel like nothings ever
gonna go my way.
Im sorry for venting all these stupid
posts lol. I just need to get this off my
chest and this is the only place I can
turn to now. Thanx all
shauna
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 08-09-04 15:02pm
Aww hunny, it will get better trust me!
Once I stpped breastfeeding, I got soo
much better, that was giving me the blues
b/c I couldnt deal with the stress that
comes with breast feeding..Now if she
crys, boom, bottle, 4ounces, I kno how
much shes getting....It'll get better
hunny, if u ever get so stressed out to
the point where u dont want to get up that
could b postpardom depression and u need
to seek Dr. Help right away
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 08-09-04 15:07pm
I feel for you shauna! Guys can be such
jerks! They have no idea what we go
through and the sacrifices we make and
they just dont appreciatte us! I hope you
feel better soon, tell tim it wouldn't
kill hi to keep danica for a an hour or 2
while you take a walk to relieve strress
or something. Jeez. He acts as though
you mclimbed on top of yourself and got
pregnant. Lol! Feel better soon hun!
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 08-09-04 15:49pm
Chrissy is right it is not going to kill
him to watch his daughter for a couple of
hours!!! Doesnt he think you deserve a
break too even though its not even really
a break you are getting... I mean
seriously going to cut your dad's hair
isnt something you were just waiting to do
after u gave birth. Tell him to be a
little more empathetic.
Meagan
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 08-09-04 17:42pm
Dont feel bad about the baby blues
thing.....I had it realllllllly bad.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 08-09-04 19:52pm
Hun u'll be ok. I went through being
depressed, frustrated etc after garret was
born (its already been 3 weeks and 2
days!) and I still get like that
sometimes.. Its your hormones trying to
get back to before.. Hopefully. And
remember, sometimes the guys can feel this
way too after the baby is born, and be
moody etc. Hopefully things will settle
down for the 2 of u, but if not, dont
stick around because u and danica dont
need that!
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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 711 Location: Springfield,Illinois
Posted: 08-09-04 21:07pm
Aww huni its okay same thing w/ raven
after him!! I promise u same thing !!!
It will get better I promise sweetie its
hard I kno ur body is trying to readjust
itself im sorry huni! Hang in there im
here if u need me! Love u hun!!!
Awe. Huni, your gonna get better. It's
just the stress of everything. But they
are all right, if it continues, you and
danica don't need that! He needs to be
able to care for his kid too!
