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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Actual Phone Call With Chris!....
Posted: 08-09-04 15:13pm
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Okay, well I called him, b/c I think im
gonna make an agreement...I told him an
hour a week(thats it for now! Until he
proves himself to me) and he said," ok,
thats a start, what is ur price? "
lol...Wut should I say for just an hour a
day? He makes good money...I dont know
what I should do.....Any suggestions? He
does seem to b coming around and I guess I
should give him another chance(not with me
and him) but for his daughter...I told him
to shove the idea of me and him up his
ass, that aint ever happening...Lol, I was
a biiiiitch, and it felt gooooood!
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KissyBai912
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Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:17pm
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Lol! Which is it? An hour a day or an
hour a week? I say 250 a month! Make him
pay! It is fun to be mean isnt it? I
love it.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:18pm
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An hour a week! My bad...Lol, thats
prolly have his paycheck! Lol
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newlife
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Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:20pm
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Well, I think you should add up you basic
monthly expenses for jaydyn, and
eventhough she hasn't gone to daycare yet,
you may want to add that in, and split it
down the middle, so he can pay half. I
think it's fair. But anyway, will the
visits be supervised? I hope so. Just be
careful. And it shoul be maybe two days a
week for an hour if that is good for you.
And keep being firm, don't get soft, and
show him whose boss.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:26pm
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Yea, definetly supervised!!!!!!He wanted
to take us to dinner and I was like
helllll no, im not letting him do
shitttt!!! Lol, no an hour a week is good
for now, I have to see if hes changed any
it will b on a trial basis
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:27pm
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I say add up the expenses, and then decide
a certain percentage... I say that half
would be kinda alot, considering he only
gets an hour a week... You cant do much
with your kid in an hour.... Are you
going to be with? Maybe you should try 1
hour-1day of the week... Then slowly move
it up to 2 or 3 hours if hes on his best
behavior....
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mommabear16
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Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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newlife
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:29pm
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Yea half may seen like a lot, but you have
to think, he is not paying to spend time
with jaydyn like she's a baby escort. He
is paying to take care of his child, and
if jordan has to pay for all of her
expenses now, he should atleast pay for
half b/c they both made her. Atleast that
is what I would do.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:30pm
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Im going to go back to work but im
wondering how much is daycare?? I kno its
expensive and cant I get something going
b/c im on mediciaid? Has anyone heard of
that? I think theres a special finiancial
aid for that..Im not sure...
Yea it'll start off one day for one hour a
week
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newlife
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:33pm
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Well, down here it depends on the kind
that you get. But as for medicaid , what
state do you live in ?
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PregnaJordan
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-09-04 15:52pm
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Hey! I just talked to him again, he said
he would pay me more than I would get with
childsupport, b/c he doesnt want to go
back to court! Ahhaha, I got him int he
palm of my hands! Wohoo..He said to tell
him what kind of formula, what size
clothes, but I just want money..Shouldnt
that b what I get? Just money, not
clothes or nething...?
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newlife
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Posted: 08-09-04 16:12pm
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Lol. Go for the money, b/c you know what
she needs, and if you have to go out for a
midnight diaper run, a pile of clothes
won't help. But if he says that he'll
give you money and buy things for the baby
every now and then, well that's fine.
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-09-04 16:17pm
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I can kind of understand where chris is
coming from....He wnats to make sure his
monye is being used on jaydyn and not u.
(not that you would) but he may also think
he is going to get away with spending
less. If nothing else, give him a list of
exactly what to buy and have him hand you
a receipt. Lol!
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-09-04 16:18pm
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Okay in sc ya'll have a program called the
abc child care program, and it is supposed
to help you out with the cost of
childcare, but they aren't taking new apps
right now. Here is the link so you can
bookmark
http://www.State.Sc.Us
/dss/abc/index.Html
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PregnaJordan
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Posts: 2908
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Posted: 08-09-04 16:20pm
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Lol chrissy--
thats wut I thought it was--abc, thanks!
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newlife
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Posted: 08-09-04 16:20pm
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Yea I understand too. But some people
don't seem to understand, that when a
court awards child support, they don
expect it to just be used for clothed
diapers and formula. They expect it to
be used to take care of the child meaning
clothed, diapers, formila, child care,
food, water, shelter, electricity, ect..
Ect...
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nikki_caro
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Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-10-04 11:32am
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Hey stinky I think you should take baby
items and some money, because he does want
to make sure its being used wisely. And
if hes willing to give you alot then take
it. But dont get back with him!!!!
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sparklypixie12
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Posts: 3099
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Posted: 08-10-04 11:42am
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Take him for all he's worth! And like
nikki said don't get back with him! You
can do much better!
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linuxChique
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Posts: 4535
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Posted: 08-10-04 11:47am
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Yeah I say get as much as he will give
you, but be careful that it isn't so much
that he starts saying "i need more time
with her blah blah..."
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