I Hate When People Judge Me... Posted: 08-11-04 16:18pm
Lemme tell yall what happened...
Today, me and my daughter rode the bus
downtown so that I could get her some new
outfits or whateva and when we was in the
store a woman came up to me and said "is
that your daughter?" "how old are u?" I
said "yeah thats my daughter and i'm 16".
She said "what were you doing having
sex?". All I could say was, "don't worry
about what I did, you ain't taking care of
me or my daughter so mind your on" and I
went to check-out. Its krazy how people
you don't even know come up to you and
start judging. It was even worse when I
was pregnant with her.
Have any of yall been in a similar
situation?
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Posted: 08-11-04 16:22pm
Thats really sad. I don't like people who
are so judgemental. you shouldn't have
told her how old you were, you should have
siad its none of your business!
Stacey
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 08-11-04 16:23pm
You shoulda said "no! I'm not that
young! Little amari here is my
granddaughter! Her momma is 8."
Last edited by linuxChique on 08-11-04 16:23pm; edited 1 time in total
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004 Posts: 221 Location: OHIO
Posted: 08-11-04 16:23pm
It is sad...
I kno, I should have never told her my
age, she just seemed like she was going to
say something positive, but I was wrong...
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004 Posts: 221 Location: OHIO
Posted: 08-11-04 16:24pm
linuxchique
wrote:
you shoulda said "no! I'm
not that young! Little amari here is my
granddaughter! Her momma is
8."
you are so silly.
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 08-11-04 16:30pm
Lol. I know how you feel, I hate being
judged too. People suck
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 08-11-04 17:05pm
Wow thats never happened to my sister.
Only someone asked me your pregnant? I
said yup! And they were like oh how old?
I said 20, and they were like oh ok you
look so young like 15 I thought wow! I
said no, im 20 thank you very much.
Just ignore people like that. If they ask
something like that, just be like "dont
hate cuz you probably aint getting none"
and walk away.
Erin! That would be funny! Sounds like
something i'd do!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 08-11-04 17:11pm
Or say something smart like "yeah well I
got my bachelors degree at age 15 so i'm a
little more advanced than your old
fashioned view of the world." even if its
not true!
One time this woman got smart with me when
I was working at mcdonalds and said "i
make more in a day than you do all month"
and I spat back at her "then you can
afford to pay somebody else to make your
food!"
No i've never been in a situation like
that thank god.. I have a nasty temper
and believe me I probablly would have been
saying things to that nosy health forum
that would have made a sailor blush....
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if you have any free time check out my
support site for pregnant teens/young
mothers
http://bs-gamers.Kwik.To/
preggo_teens/
you shouldn't have
told her how old you were, you should have
siad its none of your business!
