Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
How Soon? Posted: 08-12-04 11:38am
Im just wondering. .Those that have had
their babies, how soon after did u go out,
have someone watch him/her? (not all the
time, just sometimes, like go out w/
friends, a boyfriend etc ) I have 2 times
and hes 3 1/2 weeks. Once to the movies
and straight home.. And once to eat but
only for like 30 minutes. I just feel
like I would be a bad mom if I went out
and left him here so soon? Or is it
normal this soon? How long do you think u
should wait? Im just talking about
sometimes, not daily or anything. Thanks!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 08-12-04 11:42am
I have only left josh 3 times and he is 4
1/2 months. But I enjoy taking him
places. 2 times were in his first 10 days
cuz I was spending time with dewitt.
(ugh) lol. I don't see any problem with
leaving garret with your mom or whoever
for a couple of hours. I know I need my
me time and my sister will play with josh
for a few minutes while I shower or jump
on here or whatever. Everyone needs me
time! So don't feel bad!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 08-12-04 11:42am
Well, I am not a mommy, but I am going to
answer anyway!Lol.
I feel that it is okay whenever you are
ready. Because if you aren't ready, you
will know, if he isn't ready you will
know, and if you have someone that you
really trust to leave him with then it is
no big deal. You do need some alone
time, ya know.
Overnight is a different story! Everyone
I know who has kids didn't leave their
baby with someone else overnight for a
long, long time! Too hard!
But anyway, yeah whenever you feel that
you are ready is fine.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 08-12-04 11:44am
Thanks girls! Oops sorry I didnt mean
only moms could answer! But thanks alot
girls I wouldnt leave him
overnight no way.. But sometime I will
have to end up when the dad gets to..
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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 711 Location: Springfield,Illinois
Posted: 08-12-04 11:54am
Girl its hard river was gone for 5 nights
and 6 days I missed him like crazy but it
was also great to feel like a teen again
and come and go as I pleased but im sooo
glad I have my lil monkey back!
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 08-12-04 12:09pm
Lol, I let my cuz watch jaydyn (n the same
house) so I could catch up on sleep n the
beginning---but ive left her with her
twice all day so I could go paint at our
new house since the fumes...
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I wouldnt leave him
overnight no way.. But sometime I will
have to end up when the dad gets to..
