our
two friends are leaving to go to north
carolina for college and we saw the last
of one of them tonight. My bf is taking
it better than I thought he would. He
was best friends with one of them for a
long time and i'm trying to take it day by
day. His friend's name is henry and even
though me and him butt heads sometimes
fighting over who spends time with my bf,
I kinda miss him .
Well I will try to help my bf cope through
this and just tell him to act like each
day is just a day and that he will see him
soon enough and not to dwell on how long
it will be before he spends time with him
again. Alright my bf's name is josh, so
I can stop saying my bf now. Anyway all
josh has now is me. Quite literally.
All his other friends left and though he
can pose as my best friend and I can deal
without having any other outside
relations, it will be harder for him to
find that same fulfillment that he get's
from a guy best friend in a girlfriend.
Well it will be a long two years but at
least he has me!! He'd be so lonely right
now otherwise.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 08-12-04 23:06pm
I think it will be ok. All jose has is me
too. He can make other friends from work
or so, it might not be the same but at
least it will help him talk to people
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 08-13-04 06:29am
It's tough when people start moving on to
go to college/university. Chris found it
hard because where he came from he was the
only one who went to university. When he
came home he found a lot of people had
moved on and could no longer be friends.
Except with the people who was very close
too.
I think it's just a vital part of growing
up
our
two friends are leaving to go to north
carolina for college and we saw the last
of one of them tonight. My bf is taking
it better than I thought he would. He
was best friends with one of them for a
long time and i'm trying to take it day by
day. His friend's name is henry and even
though me and him butt heads sometimes
fighting over who spends time with my bf,
I kinda miss him 
