my name is amber. I posted the message
"pregnant by mistake" and I still haven't
told my mom that I am pregnant. I don't
know how to tell her. I mean I have been
so good and doing well in school and
having plans to go to college and
everything and now i'm pregnant. And
trust me, this wasn't part of my plans
just yet. Well can you help me out guys
I really need to know what kind of words I
should say.
thanks, amber
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-29-03 13:12pm
Hey amber!
I planned these words even though I was
never preggy!Hahah I just needed them you
know. But you need to think about it.
Tell her what you are posting. Get her in
a public place! Best way, trust me. Like
to dinner. And let her know...Well, I had
my plans for college and school and my
life but sometimes plans never work out.
But I have to tell you, you need to be
there for me. I love you so much and
youve been great. But guess what? Your
going to be a grandma!!! And explain
everything. Let her know you made a
mistake but you are willing to learn from
it. And you will keep the baby and so
on.
But make sure you are pregnant. Good
luck! Let us know how it goes!
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Avatani
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2003 Posts: 23 Location: San Diego Area
Ummm Posted: 10-01-03 00:03am
When did being pregnant stop anyone from
getting their education?
If you have plans to go to college.. Do
that! You've obviously decided you're
keeping your baby. Tell your mother..As
mad as you think she's going to be..
She'll get over it. And it may even bring
the two of you closer than ever.
Your mom is the one person who can help
you. As for your plans for school there's
alot and I mean alot of programs out there
that help young women like yourself finish
their education so they can make a life
for themselves and their children. Don't
give up on your dreams and don't be afraid
or ashamed to ask for help.
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 48 Location: minnesota
Posted: 10-01-03 10:50am
Hey amber..Im sure tellin your mom id hard
but hey lok at it this way your mom will
respect you for telling her and not
keeping it from her for very long...At
least thats what I would like to think!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Everything Will Be Fine... Posted: 10-01-03 11:10am
You should tell your mom as soon as
possible. It will give you ambision to
go to the doctor and such. I was so mad
at my mom for telling my grandmother that
I was pregnant (my grandmother raised me),
but once the cat was out of the bag I
jumped on making sure my baby was healthy.
If you hide it chances are you will do
anything to hide it, including not going
to the doctor, because she might find out.
I finished school and graduated with my
class, but instead of going to college
(not saying that you can't) I decided to
become an insurance producer, which
includes less schooling with a career
goal. But you can do anything you put
your mind to.
Good luck and congrats,
jennifer
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babyblue
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2003 Posts: 10 Location: usa
Posted: 10-29-03 14:25pm
Hi I think you should just sit her down
and tell her, but who am I to give advice
i'm kinda in the same situation I just
dont know if i'm pregnant or not for
sure.... But I mean whats done is done
you cant take it back just sit down and
talk to her and let her know
my name is amber. I posted the message
"pregnant by mistake" and I still haven't
told my mom that I am pregnant. I don't
know how to tell her. I mean I have been
so good and doing well in school and
having plans to go to college and
everything and now i'm pregnant. And
trust me, this wasn't part of my plans
just yet. Well can you help me out guys
I really need to know what kind of words I
should say. 
