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June4life

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...first Time...
Posted: 08-15-04 18:01pm

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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 08-15-04 19:16pm

Missionary I think-no point in trying anything too fancy.We were both virgins & it was extremley painful for the first 6-8 times.Use lubrication if necessary & only do it when you're 100% ready & safe (get on birth control)
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PattyV

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Posted: 08-15-04 19:42pm

Tried and true,missionary is still my favorite!Not that the others aren't good,too,things fit better this way for us.I can't remember which position I was in when I lost my virginity,but probably missionary.Patty Laughing
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June4life

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Posted: 08-15-04 19:56pm

I've been on birth control for like 4 months now, so as for protection, i'm all set. I'd use condoms too- you can never be too safe!
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PattyV

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Posted: 08-15-04 20:07pm

Good idea!A lot of ladies don't think of birth control until they've already had sex.Best to you!Patty
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2ferano

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Posted: 08-16-04 20:15pm

Missionary definately. If you would jump on top right away you would hurt yourself. If he is on top he can ease in (sorry, tmi) and you two can take it slow. Just beware it will hurt and you will most likely get no pleasure whatsoever for quite sometime. Plus since you are both virgins it will probably take you a long time to get him to please you. But just take it slow and communicate. Don't do anything you are not ready to do. Good luck to you!
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Forum Girl

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Posted: 08-16-04 21:24pm

I disagree - while sex the first time is a bit painful it didn't keep me from experiencing pleasure. I was able to orgasm and enjoy myself. The guy I was with had to go slow and we took our time and everything was fine.
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siobahn

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Position For First Intercourse
Posted: 08-17-04 14:46pm

Wink
missionary was a requirement because the high school boys i
first had sex with when I was young had no real clue and I just
followed along .Later dating men doggy and sideways are my favorites
for good recreational sex
siobahn
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2ferano

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Posted: 08-17-04 20:31pm

Oh well yeah, you may get pleasure no doubt. I was just stating that you most likely won't since about 99% of women don't their first time. I didn't until my like 200th time. (i didn't really count. Just an estimate cause it took quite some time)
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DesiresEnd

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Posted: 03-26-05 06:14am

Missionary is probably your best bet. It doesn't seem to hurt as much, because (in my meager opinion), it doesn't pose as much of a deep penetration threat. As much as you'll long for that later, the first couple of times it'll be a bit uncomfortable. I really suggest you don't try taking the top for the first couple times at least. It can be very uncomfortable.
G'luck.
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prag

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Re: ...first Time...
Posted: 04-08-05 05:10am

june4life wrote:
ladies, the first time you had sex, were you on the top or bottom? What do you think is the best position to lose your virginity in? Also, what if you are both virgins... Whats the best position for that as well?


Thanks!!


I'm a virgin and just curious- I think missionary would be the best position because you could see each others eyes and it'd be more intimate like that!



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becky24

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Posted: 06-15-05 22:40pm

Missionary is your best. Least that is the position that I did when I first lost mine.
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silver_tigress

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What's Your Problem :p
Posted: 06-16-05 01:32am

I feel sorry for anyone who lost their virginity to pain and no pleasure. I must be extremely lucky to be in that 1% who has a great time during my first. I am still confused to this day as to why I didn't experience any pain...Maybe I was in shock haha!
But yeah I would say missionary is the go for first timers. It's not as deep and it's more intimate in that you can see the person you're with. Unless you don't want to see them haha!
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