I recently engaged in sexual activity with
my girlfriend.
Note that I said sexual activity, not
sexual intercourse.
well anyways, she didn't lose her
virginity, and I didn't ejaculate
but I did get some pre-cum around or
perhaps on her vaginal opening?
Anyways, she washed it off afterwards.
So I worried for two full weeks, waiting
for her period. It came
two days ago. It was 2 days late, and
there was very little blood.
Now her period is back to normal. You
may think that I am relieved,
but I am actually worried beyond
comprehension.
Today is the first time I saw her in a
week. She told me that one morning
she was dizzy and almost threw up and had
a bad stomachache.
Her breasts are also slightly... Um...
Softer? Or maybe that's just me
because I got lonely during this week...
And she read this
article about a woman who got her period
four months after
she got pregnant...
I am currently 15 years old, so as you can
see, I have much to
worry about.
so please, if you can offer any advice, or
any words at all,
i'd be more than happy to hear it.
Thanks a lot guys.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 08-20-04 18:43pm
She is very very unlikely pregnant. I
very much so doubt she is... There is
about a one in amillion chance.. So I
woudlnt worry..
Shauna
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fproto
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2004 Posts: 14
Posted: 08-20-04 18:51pm
Thanks.
Yes, but it is that one out of a million
possibility that freaks me out.
I really don't want her to be pregnant.
Things really go out of control when
you're... In "need",
but after you're satisfied, it's already
too late to regret it.
i know i'll never even take my pants off
in front of her again for
a looooooong loooooooooooooong time to
come.
Right now all I can do is worry.
If I sound extremely paranoid or perhaps
idiotic, please forgive me,
because I am! Lol.
i can't wait until this is over...
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 08-20-04 19:38pm
Well as for paranoia, I will agree with u
that u are being extremely paranoid....
But really, u two never ahd sexual
intercourse and u said sperm went near the
outside of her vagina, but sperm needs to
be ejaculated at a high speed to be able
to reach the egg, which usually means
penetration had to be done in order for
this. But I would say ur chances are even
lesser than one in a million, but u are
definetly not ready for sex and I ope u
dont feel so paranoid becuz u really have
nothing to worry about so try to calm down
and just rest the "sexualness" of ur
relationship for awhile
shauna
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fproto
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2004 Posts: 14
Posted: 08-20-04 22:12pm
So you're telling me to be less horny?
no problem. Lol.
I don't wanna be stuck in this again.
Thanks a lot shauna.
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 08-20-04 22:53pm
Lol - and if your really paranoid, have
her take a pregnancy test to relieve that.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 08-20-04 22:55pm
Ur welcome!
Shauna
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June4life
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2004 Posts: 550
Posted: 08-20-04 23:35pm
Like shauna said, it is very unlikely that
she'd get pregnant.
Is it possible, yes, but...Whats that
saying? Anythings possible?!
Shauna pretty much explained everything.
If she is pregnant, its not yours!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 08-20-04 23:37pm
It deff sounds like shes almost deff not
preggy. If youre nervous have her go to
the Dr. To get a blood test, that is deff
accurate!
<3
gaby
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 08-21-04 00:46am
Get her tested to put both your minds at
rest.
Stress and worry can give her symptoms of
headaches and nausea.
Dizziness is common in teenage girls
especially around the time of their
period, periods can make some girls
anaemic (rare but possible).
Then if you are going to experiment, get
her on birth control, if for whatever
reason that isn't possible, then 1) don't
play around 2)if you must play around keep
your willy out of the way of her girly
bits.
