Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 711 Location: Springfield,Illinois
I Cant Do This Anymore! Posted: 08-22-04 15:06pm
I cant do this girls! I should b happy
but im not raven doesnt have a job im
busting my a$$ at work making jack crap I
have to get plates for the car register on
top of that pay for rivers daycare buy him
diapers wipes liners im trying to get all
3 of us out of this situation and its not
going anywhere we havent even budge im soo
stress im sitting here bawling my eyes out
I cant stop crying ravens mad at me bc I
should be stronger but im not im weak I
cant do this I really cant im faling apart
im having an emotional break down girls I
cant how am I supposed to work pay rivers
day care and other things pay for my
things car things go to school be a mommy
and a girlfriend? Idk how I can thers not
enough hours or money in a day to do these
things I have fallen completely apart idk
wat to do anymore.............
Huni! I talked to you today and you were
fine! Oh lordy. I'll talk to you later
and cheer you up! You know hwo it gets
with the stress sometimes, but you are ok!
You are doing good. And as for raven.
Well hun, he needs to do more. He
dosen't do near enough! Call me afta
while. You are strong and you are going
to make it, for yourself and river.
I love you,
chanda
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 08-22-04 15:47pm
I know it seems tough now but keep working
hard and dont fall apart. It will come
together in the end you will see. Ya
know im here girl for u to talk too
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 08-22-04 17:19pm
Aww jen u have made it this far and i'm
sure that makes you strong in a lot of
peoples eyes, you can only do soo much,
dont worry things always pan out, just try
and sit down and relax and you and raven
try and make a buget plan or something...
You have come too far to just say taht you
are weak.
Meagan
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 08-22-04 18:57pm
Awww jeni dont ever say ur weak!! Ur a
very strong woman and ur trying ur very
best to give river what he needs, and u
should be very proud of what uve done!
Raven should go out and get a job too and
help support u two... I hope ur feelin
better.. Hun u are a great person and a
great mother! Dont ever let urself think
otherwise!
Shauna
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 08-23-04 08:28am
Jen you are doing so well so never knock
yourself for that-you are so much stronger
then you think. I remember when you were
pregnant with river & you were so
worried about the future & now you're
working, you plan to go back to school
& you have your man & your lil
boy. You're not the type to give up so I
know you will keep going & I have a
good feeling that things are really gonna
get good for you-you just have to put your
mind to it huni.You know we're all for you
:d
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004 Posts: 236 Location: New York
Posted: 08-23-04 08:51am
Jeni, I think u are soooo
strong...Throughout all your hard times, u
alwyas manage to have a smile on your
face, and you are one of the nicest ppl
here on this forum, alwyas helping all the
other girls. Im soo sorry youre feeling
overwhelmed, but I know u wont give
up...And things will get better again,
then worse, then better.....Like is so
full of ups and downs, we just gotta learn
to roll wit it....I wish I lived near you,
i'd come babysit for free!! I hope u feel
better soon.
and, it raven it mad, let him be. I know
how it feels to have the weight of the
world on your shoulders. As for river's
daycare, can't raven look after him since
he is not working? And what state do you
live in? I may be able to get you some
info on extra money for daycare. Keep
your head up.
Sorry to hear about your situation but
like most of these girls said you are a
strong person no matter how much you think
you are not but you really are. I may not
know you personally but I have read some
of your post and you would do anything for
your family. Your situation may be tough
but don't give up because it always gets
better believe me. Don't ever say that
you are weak. Hopefully raven can get a
job and maybe he should watch river while
you work to make it a little easier at the
same time he can look for a job.
