Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
a Tip to Help Posted: 09-30-03 14:43pm
Hello!
I just wanted to make a tip on how to help
a relationship. Me and jose were great in
the beggining, like a fairy tale. Then he
moved with me a while ago and it got
rocky. I loved him alot and we were both
really into helping our relationship. The
thing was he was a drinker and smoker.
Hes cut to 2 cigaretts, so im so happy and
the drinking is one beer on a friday, sat
and sunday. We had to come to an
agreement or it would have never worked
out. But the thing was we needed
communication bad. So we would lay down,
hug and talk about everything. And it
worked! Then we go on a date every
weekend. To a movie, to dinner, to play
golf, go to the swapmeet, the
mall...Anything. That helps so much.
Dates to me keep it working so I know how
much I love spending all my time with him
and know we are great company. Another
thing, no matter how mad you are at the
other, never hesitate to say I love you.
I can be so mad at jose and he will hug me
and say I love you. And ill be grumpy and
say, I love you too. I think we say I
love you on an average of 8 times a day.
We go to pre-marital counceling too. To
solve conflicts and communication skills.
But I think those are the key things to
help you relationship. The main thing is
to listen to the other person. Give
feedback and never put down their
feelings.
Good luck to all of your relationships!!!
Love is a wonderful thing!
"i have loved you with an everlasting
love; I have drawn you with loving
kindness" jeremiah 31:3
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New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: BC
How About This Idea?? Posted: 10-09-03 00:33am
Here is my idea for inhancing your
relationship:
take your childs etch-a-sketch , write
questions back and forth on it. Even
watching tv , travelling , whenever. If
you don't have the etch-a-sketch , use
paper. I know for myself , writing back
and forth can be easier than actually
verbally. Get creative! I know writing
sexual comments back and forth can create
a mood. Asking simple questions , as in
what's your favorite food? You could be
surprised in what you don't know about
your partner , and what you can find out.
