Hey girl. I wanted to apologize again if
I offended you. Those comments I made in
the cheating post were stereotypical and
not fair. I have also been with a guy
who had a girlfriend in my past. I would
never ever do it again now, but I also
have done that.
We all make mistakes and we all do things
we are not proud of and we all sometimes
step on other's toes to get what we want!
It happens and it wasn't fair of me to
stereotype like that. I am sorry.
Please don't be hurt or mad!
Oh huni. I wasn't really upset. I mean,
what I did was wrong. The only defense I
have is that it didn’t start out that way.
He and I were together for about a month
after him and tessa broke up. She was
preggy though, and didn’t know. When she
found out….. He went back to her, but
continued to see me. I just, I wanted you
to know that not all girls are doing it to
be vindictive to the girlfriend he has. I
mean, I didn’t like tessa, but it was
very, very unlike me to be with someone
who had a woman. Much less a child. And
over time it was “when tamara is born,
i’ll leave him”…… but then she was born
and I dind't leave him..... For 2 months
I left him alone to be with his child....
But everytime I was "over" him, sometime
or someone brought me back to him and we'd
hook up again..... Sometimes I think it
was meant to happen the way it did. Fate
was for us..... Or so it seemed lol. Ya
know. caca happens. But I am ok huni. I
am not angry with you. I just…….I read it
and was taken aback for a minute ya know!
I’d never be the “other woman” again.
It’s not my style!
Love you,
chanda
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 08-22-04 16:54pm
Okay good. As I said I have also done
the same and it happens. It wasn't fair
of me to stereotype like that, because you
are right, not all women do it to be
vindictive or to boost their self esteem.
Sometimes it is just too darn hard to
avoid. And I don't see myself or you as
that example I gave, so it really wasn't
fair, nor was it correct. So, I am
sorry, and I am so glad that you aren't
mad.
