I agree wit mellybaby...Ur so ryt dat y
even hav an abortion dats lik a gift from
god u knw y jus let go wen it was ur fault
u knw but things happens..Lik me im realy
yung n im in a scary situation...If eny1
wood wanna talk or giv me advice I wood
help n wood giv thnx to da plz who wood
giv me advice....Mi
aim>jayswifey249....Thx
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-15-03 17:44pm
Abortion or not is the girl's choice.
I agree that no one should give up their
own child if she is capable of raising her
child!
But what if she is immature, has no one to
help her, or she does not have the money
to? Then, are we gonna give her money to
raise the child? Are we gonna go to her
house and help out? And are we gonna get
a degree for her? Or complete her ged for
her? No. Even though I dont like
abortion, but that's not our choice, the
last decision will be made by the girl.
And just as u know, I do not like bringing
god into this! I dont believe that
putting god on the table is the way to go
either.
So whatever you want to do, I will be here
to help
plus the world is over populated as it is,
we dont really need any more immature
mothers going partying with their child
and being brought on to the jenny jones or
rikke lake;s shows... Really :p
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blu_eyes00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-15-03 18:09pm
I totally agree with hongkongchick.
Abortion is the female's choice. No one
should tell her she should or shouldnt do
it. It is her body. Fortunately I have
never been in the position to make this
decision, but if I were, depending on the
circumstances, my fiance and I would
probably opt for abortion at this stage in
our lives.
It is easy enough to speculate what you
might do if you were in this position, but
until you really are, I dont think it is
right to judge. I do agree with the
notion that if you have sex, you should be
prepared for the consequences, yet ppl who
do take every percaution (ie.Pill +condom)
still get pregnant.
Is it realy fair for a young female to
raise a child, when this female is too
young to raise herself yet?? The child
will only end up suffering.
I know a girl who had a kid when she was
15....She had to leave high school...But
unfortunately never went back...So now has
no high school education, and therefore
has prevented herself from a decent future
with any form of financial
stability....And the worst part is that
this girl's child is now suffering through
poverty, children's aid, and a very
immature mother.
i just wish all these "bible-thumpers"
would lay off this anti-pro choice
sentiment and would leave these private
decisions up to the would-be mothers of
these fetuses. i'm not
knocking religion at all here - I have no
intention of steppin on anyone's feet here
(im roman catholic myself). But in no
way should religion dictate what society
should permit. My only concern is that
ppl may begin to abuse abortion...And use
it as a back-up form of contraception...
Sorry...That was my little rant. Heat is
starting to get to me here. Stupid
black-out. Friggen 21st century and
limited electricity for 2 days!
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-15-03 19:50pm
blu_eyes00
wrote:
i just wish all these "bible-thumpers"
would lay off this anti-pro choice
sentiment and would leave these private
decisions up to the would-be mothers of
these fetuses. i'm not
knocking religion at all here - I have no
intention of steppin on anyone's feet here
(im roman catholic myself). But in no
way should religion dictate what society
should permit. My only concern is that
ppl may begin to abuse abortion...And use
it as a back-up form of
contraception...
me too! U are like my twin sister,
thinking the same thing :p
i think having the freedom to choose
abortion is great, but then some women
abuse that freedom and then people think
it's not a good idea to legalize abortion,
implying taking away a woman's freedom.
We as women dont have enough equality as
it is, and this freedom which concerns
women the most is being judged in a bad
way? I dont think we should allow that to
happen!
I am sure that a child in poverty rather
not be born than suffer everyday.
And the religion thing? I am a christian
myself, but I do believe that this is in
fact the 21st century, many rules and
regulations from beginning of time can
give a little slack and a little change.
I think that's enough for this topic coz I
dont want to cause any rage or any
hardship on this young lady or any one who
has commented here.
Sorry for being a bit harsh! :p no hard
feelings
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broadcastedlife
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
Raped. Posted: 08-17-03 03:34am
I was raped and pregnant, but my
boyfriend said he would take care of the
baby like his own... My mom said she
would not let me have an abortion.. Shs
smart.. No matter what its your
baby.
Amanduh .X
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Santacruz85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Houston Tx.
Baby Or No Baby Posted: 08-23-03 01:59am
I say keep the baby love him or her and
give the baby the life you would want. I
know it will be hard but love that baby.
I say its a keeper
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carvytaph
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Posts: 87 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 08-23-03 20:25pm
I desire not to be a "bible-thumper" as
you word it, but to reason with your
contradicting statements.
Hongchongchick:
you say you are a christian, yet you
refuse to bring god into the situation?
Is he not the reason for your religion?
As for giving rules slack. What is the
point of the rules if they are broken and
not followed? Abortion is not a rule,
but a commandment which still stands as a
law to this day. homicide is wrong!
How can there be slack on that? Well,
people have adopted the thought that it is
not considered "killing" if they don't
consider the precious life inside of you
as a human fetus, but a lump of mass
(which I might add has fingers, toes, and
a visible heart beat).
The fact that we shouldn't be "making her
decision for her" is absurd. Obviously
no one can except her. But she is the
one who ask us for our opinions in the
first place. I am stating mine.
If you believe in something...A religion
as some may say...Don't change it to fit
your circumstances or to make your wrong
decisions right. Live by what you
believe.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Posted: 08-23-03 22:10pm
I dont agree with abortion but who am I to
judge anyone who has or wants to have one?
Would I think badly of them? No of
course not, I can only imagine what a
painful decision that must have been, and
unfortunately will have to live with any
guilt she had over it (if any) for the
rest of her life. About having the right
to choose whether you have an abortion
because its "their body" and "their
choice" is absurd. Your right to choose
should never ever exceed someone's
absolute right to live and not die. This
has nothing to do with god or religion (im
not much religious myself), it is simply
moral logic. Killing someone is wrong and
abortion is killing someone. So abortion
is wrong. Very logical.
Let me make it clear however these are my
views and I dont by any means judge anyone
for any past or present choices they have
made. It's sad and thats all.
If you dont want your baby then give it up
for adoption to someone who really wants a
child, and cant have one of their own.
People are becoming more and more leniant
while using protection because they think
"oh well if I get pregnant I can have an
abortion". It's saddening it really
is...These poor innocent beings are being
killed.
I've already lost my point so i'll stop
now.
Tanya*xo
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-25-03 23:57pm
carvytaph
wrote:
hongchongchick:
you say you are a christian, yet you
refuse to bring god into the situation?
Is he not the reason for your religion?
As for giving rules slack. What is the
point of the rules if they are broken and
not followed? Abortion is not a rule,
but a commandment which still stands as a
law to this day. homicide is wrong!
How can there be slack on that? Well,
people have adopted the thought that it is
not considered "killing" if they don't
consider the precious life inside of you
as a human fetus, but a lump of mass
(which I might add has fingers, toes, and
a visible heart beat).
The fact that we shouldn't be "making her
decision for her" is absurd. Obviously
no one can except her. But she is the
one who ask us for our opinions in the
first place. I am stating mine.
If you believe in something...A religion
as some may say...Don't change it to fit
your circumstances or to make your wrong
decisions right. Live by what you
believe.
i am sorry, have I met you before? If
not, I dont believe u absolutely know me.
And have u met jesus? If you have, please
ask him to not let u judge me like you
know me, thanks
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blu_eyes00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-26-03 18:33pm
Carvytaph:
no one's religious beliefs should ever be
imposed on another. What one individual
interprets/believes is that individual's
choice. One person's religious beliefs
has no right what so ever to dictate
societal laws, or be used to justify
negativities directed towards someone who
does not share in the same beliefs. One
religious belief is not more important
than another, and same goes for personal
beliefs on this topic.
It just bugs me to no end when people
start using religion to justify arguments,
especially something like abortion. Not
everyone believes in the same religion or
the same god...Therefore religion cannot
be used as the basis of anti-abortion
arguments. If someone decides to have an
abortion, that is their choice. If you
yourself ever are in that situation,
likewise, it is your choice, and no one
should judge you either way for whatever
decision you would make.
Hongkongchick.....I hear ya! We must be
twins! Hehe
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carvytaph
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Posts: 87 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 08-31-03 15:28pm
Hongkongchick:
you are not a bad person. I am not
judging you for any of your thinking. I
do not know you. I was reading your
message, but I got confused because you
said that you were a christian yet you
refuse to let god into your situations.
Sorry! I just thought letting him into
your life was indeed_being_a christian.
Thought they went hand in hand. Thought
saving humanity was part of being a
christian and keeping our morals right.
homicide is a law not only part of
religion. Sorry for the
misunderstanding. I am not judging you
but trying to comprehend what you are
saying.
I have asked god and he said that I wasn't
judging you. I was trying to understand
you. But he did say that I was too hard
on you. I am sorry for the
misunderstanding. My fault.
Please accept my apology. The only thing
I am trying to accomplish is to see the
other side of their thinking. Make them
sure of what they believe.
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carvytaph
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Posts: 87 Location: Pennsylvania
Correction Posted: 08-31-03 15:31pm
***to_help_them to see the other side of
their argument, and to make them sure of
what they believe.
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JenniMarie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Bardstown, Ky
Re: Baby Or No Baby? Posted: 09-04-03 11:31am
If you really want the answer go read
"diary of an unborn baby" its on this page
just a couple stroies up from yours..
That will change your mind real quick.....
i'm not
knocking religion at all here - I have no
intention of steppin on anyone's feet here
(im roman catholic myself). But in no
way should religion dictate what society
should permit. My only concern is that
ppl may begin to abuse abortion...And use
it as a back-up form of contraception...
