Sleeping Over At My Boyfriends House... Posted: 07-21-03 21:26pm
I'm 16 years old and I have been with my
boyfriend for about a year and a half now
on and off. We did go through our tuff
times, but I now see that he has matured
(hes 20) and that he is ready to settle
down. I know that It might seem as though
it's impossible for me to settle down
since I am 16 and a half...but I know what
I want in life and I know hes right for
me. Anways...we had broken up not long ago
but got back together and he now has his
own place. I want to spend nights there
and the only way I can, is by yelling and
screaming on the phone with my mom and
just not going home that night. I want to
be honnest with her and I want to be able
to tell her that I will be sleeping over
at his house that Night without her making
a scene. Can anybody please help me and
give me advice on how I can convince my
mom thats It's ok If I spend the night ay
mt boyfriends house.
Thank you!
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bekkitt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 6 Location: Illinois
It's Not Ok Posted: 08-23-03 15:29pm
Since you are 16, and your boyfriend is
20, under no circumstances is it ok to
spend the night alone with him. In most
states, he would be considered a sexual
predator, and would most likely be
prosecuted if your mother chose to do so,
as you are still a minor. If something
or someone is worth having, it's worth
waiting for. There's an old saying-why
buy the cow if the milk is free. It
might seem as if he's the right guy for
you, but time has a way of changing
things. Don't rush into a situation you
might regret.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Posted: 08-23-03 19:45pm
I agree 100% with what bekkit said. You
would be putting yourself in a very
unpredictable situation.
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kala
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003 Posts: 6 Location: dallas
Posted: 09-05-03 18:29pm
I agree too. You're only 16, you might
think that you're in love and that he's
"the one", but don't be so sure of
yourself. I think most percentage of
girls that lost their virginity because of
that feeling now regret it. Don't feel
pressured into doing anything. If he
can't wait, than he's not your true love.
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Maddie M
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2003 Posts: 2 Location: Sacremento Area
Posted: 09-15-03 18:11pm
Assuming that you are sexually active with
your boyfriend, let your mom know that you
understand about sex and protection and in
no way do you want to get pregnant. Let
her know that at least you are being safe
and she knows where you are and not out in
some slump, right?
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