I love my boyfriend but I have had to deal
with him having a fast ejaculation during
our two year relationship. I had been
used to having a much longer sexual
experience. In the past six months it has
been worst. I thought it might have
something to do with stress or is it that
he was never experienced in making sure
that his partner is happy. I am
wondering how to let him know that he is
not satisfying me sexually without being
hurtful. I have brought it up before in
a round about way and he said that he was
listening but he seems to try and then we
are right back from where we started.
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bigkahuna
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2004 Posts: 6 Location: EARTH
Posted: 08-30-04 12:11pm
Does he seem like he's only trying to get
off to pleasure himself?
For me (male,31), I do like to get off for
myself but really enjoy making my
girlfriend feel good; where it includes
manual stimulation or whatever.
When your boyfriend is done, couldn't he
stimulate you another way?
Or maybe even bring toys into the
relationship; if he's open to that...
I've heard that masturbation before sex
can also extend the time to reach and
orgasm...
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
the Round About Only Posted: 08-14-07 16:13pm
makes the miscommunication drag on nail it
down and discuss it and start to enjoy the
sex again best wishes .......Wazzywoman
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Devar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 24 Location: UK, Birmingham
Posted: 08-20-07 07:17am
Maine3150,
Ask him for oral sex and more foreplay
before you start after youve started
intercource try and keep him paced men
tend to speed up when they are about to
come you could ask him to slow down or
even jump on top and take control of the
situation.
How old is he??? I was "one pump chump"
(well not really I could go the average
time 7 -8 minutes) until I was in my late
20's then something happened and now I can
go as long or short as I want...Can't
really get off on command like a porn star
but I have a lot better control...
If you have a decent relationship with
good communication you should be able to
tell him what you need...
