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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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All $5 Bets Off!
Posted: 08-24-04 10:11am
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Aiight chanda and nikki, bets off. I'm
back with chris. I think everyone(well
almost everyone) deserves a second chance.
I have to see if it works b/c what if I
didnt try and he really has changed and I
miss out on the best relationship with my
babys daddy? Life is full of risks, and
u gotta live like theres no tomorrow. Im
not moving in or anything. I just dont
think I could live with myself if I didnt
give it another try...
~jordan & jaydyn~
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004
Posts: 236
Location: New York
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:14am
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Jordan ~ I totallu inderstand your
logic...If u didnt try, you would spend
the rest of your life wondering if it
would have worked. Like I said be4, tho,
pleeeeeze take it as slow as u can....And
good luck, hun!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-24-04 10:15am
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Wow. How is your mother dealing?
Always,
chanda
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:16am
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Lol, chanda...My mom doesnt know quite
yet..Shes at work..She doesnt get off for
another three or four hours..She wont say
too much though, I know..Shes quiet when I
talk about him...
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-24-04 10:16am
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Well, good luck, I guess. He's been in
prison so he dosent' have the best rep. I
can see why your mom would get a lil
upset. Good luck and be careful.
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:17am
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Take it slow and be careful and the both
of you need to remember that this is for
jaydyn. And also for you too obviously.
Make sure this starts off as a healthy
relationship. Just follow your heart. ~
erica.
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:18am
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I kno and I understand completely but I
have to give it another shot, and shes
gota b able to understand that somewhere
inside her....
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:50am
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Jordan, I totally understand. If I were
you i'd probably give it another try too,
but don't let your guard down just yet.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:54am
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Good luck jordan! I hope he really has
changed and that this works for you!
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 08-24-04 10:55am
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Thanx yall! I really appreciate it-- I
kno when nikki sees this shes gunna kill
me
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 08-24-04 11:46am
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Well, if u think its gonna work, then by
all means congrats. It is good tho for
jaydyn, giving her a chance for a family.
I hope u dont get hurt but if it works
out, im happy for u 
shauna
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-24-04 12:14pm
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Your making a big mistake. No one changes
from prison no matter how long they sit
there. He wasnt there for being a good
citizen. This is a way for him out of
child support and having to go to court.
If he wants to play daddy for 1, why cant
he for the other one? Jordan your only 17
you think this is best when its not. Your
still young and you just dont know. I
thought you were gonna go to church and
read the bible? What happened to not
having sex til u were married? Looks like
that leaf you turned over, turned back
around and bit u in the a$$
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 08-24-04 12:18pm
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Yeah I don't know your situation as well
as nikki but I do think she's right.A
while ago you practically hated him &
you were gonna make a great new start-i
just hope that this doesn't set you &
jaydyn back
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 08-24-04 12:35pm
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First off noone knows where alicia and
noah are...He in fact, does wanna see
noah(i learned this yesterday), but he
wants to get custody of him b/c shes an
"unfit and unstable" mother..But I dont
think he should do that though..Even
though she is unfit and unstable...
...Court was in my hands, and I decided
against it b/c I dont twanna spend the
next six months in and out of court....
...I havent been readin the bible and
going to church in a while(beforei even
started talking to him)...I dunnoh what
happened wit that...
....If its my mistake, I have to make it
myself...But I dont think its a
mistake...
Ppl. In my situation can relate, but
nikki, u gota husband a house a job, u
arent exactly in my shoes...
....I have to deal with these curveballs
ive been thrown and this is how im doing
it....
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-24-04 12:41pm
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I dont have to be in your shoes to
understand. I saw what my sister went
through. I predicted this for you already
remember? I told u when hes out your
gonna fall for him and want him back. The
only reason im not in your situation is
because I avoided making mistakes. Your
mom knows best jordan, but if you need to
learn the hard way then fine. But if you
get pregnant again and he does something
to go back to jail.. Well then cant say
we didnt warn you.
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Posted: 08-24-04 12:41pm
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Good for you jordan!!! :d ~ erica.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-24-04 12:43pm
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I find myself to be pretty understanding,
espically after how much I let josh do to
me before I finally got the courage to
leave him for good. I totally understand
that you are going to do what you want,
the way you want, when you want. I just
hope you realize now, that it'll affect
more than just you if it dosen't work this
time around. It'll affect your daughter
too. Good luck either way. I truly hope
you don't end up regretting this.
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 08-24-04 12:47pm
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Either descision I make is gonna affect
her..She may b pissed when she gets older
to find out that I didnt wanna try with
her daddy to b a family again if I didnt
get bck with him...Every descision has
different outcomes...Thanks for bein
understanding. I have to try
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-24-04 14:31pm
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Jordan hun, sorry but I have to agree with
chanda, nikki and liz. I think this is a
bad idea and a big mistake. I was in
your shoes remember? I thought dewitt
was wonderful and that he had changed
(stupid me) but he hadn't. And I
seriously seriously doubt that chris has.
What was he in jail for? And after he
said all those bad things to you? I know
you want him in jaydyn's life but I don't
think you guys should be together! You
know it would make it that much easier for
him to get custody if you guys break up
again? I hope things go well for you but
I am just telling you, I think this a
really really really bad idea.
Last edited by KissyBai912 on 08-24-04 15:05pm; edited 1 time in total
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