Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Ugh Boys... Posted: 08-24-04 17:36pm
He cant seem to make up his mind...One
second everything is great and we have
plans to hang out and stuff. He actually
cares! And then the next he gives me the
cold shoulder and decides hes going to go
somewhere else? Is that fair? He told
me to call him at 5:30 which is now, and
we would go do something tonight. So I
did, and he is at a volleyball game with
this really annoying girl jen from his
work. Is it wrong for me to keep hoping
that things will get better? He seems to
be living a double life. When he is away
from his friends everthing is cool but as
soon as he is with them he hates me..Which
is exactly how he treated me on the phone.
Should I continue to put myself through
this?
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 08-24-04 17:39pm
No u dont deserve to be going thru this.
I know its so hard on u but he acts like
hes got all the freedom in the world and
can play with ur heart. U should show him
that he cant get away with that! Its nto
fair to u at all and u shouldbt put up wit
him if he keeps doing this to u! I hate
seeing girls go thru this... I hope he
smartens up tho and realizes hes havin a
baby...
Shauna
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 08-24-04 17:49pm
Its ok michelle just wait until it hits
him he's gonna be a father and then he
will have a new lease on life.
Meagan
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 08-24-04 17:56pm
Thanks guys...I litterally broke down in
my room a minute ago...Sometimes you just
need to rant, know what I mean?
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 08-24-04 17:58pm
Maybe you should just ignore him until he
realizes that you aren't at his beckon
call.
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 08-24-04 17:59pm
I think I might, ihad started to do that,
but then he called me...Maybe I just wont
pick up
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 08-24-04 18:30pm
Be cool about this...... It might be
hard. I remember breaking up with chris
and I flung my phone at the wall and it
broke ( temper tantrum). It was actually
really good I couldnt text him or phone
him my mum literally tackeld my to the
ground lol.
Within days he was phoning back beggin for
mercy ha ha ha ha ha
i htink your man is having is cake and
eating it, arsehole!!! Stay away from him
until he gets a life!!
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 08-24-04 19:07pm
Thats a good idea. Thanks guys. I
really appreciate it
tonight, I gonna tell him that he cant
have it both ways. And then I gonna
tell him to leave me alone until he grows
up. Lol. And then...If he dosent call
back...His loss!
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 647 Location: Alabama
Posted: 08-24-04 19:48pm
I agree with what everyone has said! I'm
sorry you are having to go through this,
but I know you are going to come through
it all! Its so wierd to me that these
guys dont show you guys more respect. It
takes 2 to make a baby, and then they
think its ok to run off and "play" while
you girls to all the work! Craziness!
Hang in there girl, you are gonna be fine
with or without him!
