Is My Girl Friend Pregnant?? Help!! Posted: 08-25-04 04:22am
My girlfriend and I didn't really have sex
before(did attempt without condom but
nothing never come out of me) that
happened about 3 times and each time
didn't last more than 5 mins, 2 weeks
before her period, she found there were
blood in her pee, and she once told me her
stomach hurts after the first day I
attemped to have sex with her, and it was
hurting in the next morning, and after
seeing blood in her pee, we are afraid
that she is pregnant. Her mom told her
it might be cause of lack of sleep or lack
of eating...Since she rarly eat and havn't
be get enough sleep lately...Please help
to see if she is pregnant or it's just her
period, thanks
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silverlou
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 124 Location: Toronto
Posted: 08-25-04 09:43am
Use birth control if you don't want to get
your girlfriend pregnant. What you
described can result in pregnancy. It
doesn't matter if you don't think anything
came out of you while you were in her,
there is something called pre-ejaculate
which leaks out, you may not even notice
it, and there are enough sperm in there to
cause pregnancy.
As for the symptoms your girlfriend is
experiencing, they sound more like bladder
infection symptoms than they do pregnancy
or period symptoms. If it is a bladder
infection she needs to see a doctor to
verify and give her antibiotics. Either
way, if there's blood in her urine, tell
her to go see a doctor.
And if you don't want to get her pregnant,
use birth control, always.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 08-25-04 10:47am
Pk,you and your honey are playing russian
roulette.Pre-ejaculate has sperm in it.All
it takes is one little swimmer to
penetrate the egg.Your girlfriend needs to
see a doctor for the blood in the urine
and to have a gyn exam to make sure she's
not pregnant.She can discuss birth control
options at that visit.No birth control
method is 100%,so use a condom as
well,just to be sure.Good luck to both of
you.Patty
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freemanashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2004 Posts: 70 Location: work
Posted: 08-25-04 15:11pm
Sounds like she may have a uti (urianary
tract infection) which you can get from
having a new sexual partner. Just
relax...
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pk1733
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2004 Posts: 5
Posted: 08-25-04 15:44pm
Thanks guys, and one more thing, I have
also put my finger in her, would that be
the cause of infection? And I was just
wondering...Is is possible that it was
becoz she had lost her virginity? From
first attempt to having blood in her pee,
was within a week that things happened..
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PattyV
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Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 08-25-04 15:54pm
Only if your hands were dirty.You two need
to check out some birth control sites.The
one here is pretty good or the planned
parenthood site is excellent.I doubt
losing her virginity would make her bleed
a week later.If she finds intercourse too
painful,she should see a doctor.Patty
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pk1733
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2004 Posts: 5
Posted: 08-26-04 04:49am
Not sure if my hand was dirty..But as for
the pre-ejaculate, first, I don't know
what exactly that is...Sorry, is that the
water-like clear stuff? Well I asked my
gf, she said my "thing" wasn't really that
deep inside..So not sure if any eggs were
penetrated...She said she only peed blood
twice and it all happened within an hour
in one nite, and its now 5 days after, she
havn't seen any blood anymore...I really
hope it was only blood from breaking her
virginity thing...Thanks guys!
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NYGUY
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Posts: 41 Location: NYC
Posted: 08-26-04 11:33am
Quote:
but as for the
pre-ejaculate, first, I don't know what
exactly that is...Sorry, is that the
water-like clear stuff? Well I asked my
gf, she said my "thing" wasn't really that
deep inside..So not sure if any eggs were
penetrated...
ok this concerns me. Especially the part
about penetration of eggs. I highly
suggest you become much more informed
about the act of sex and how a baby is
made before having any further sexual
relations.
God speed and good luck.
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pk1733
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2004 Posts: 5
Posted: 08-26-04 22:57pm
Ya, I know....I will definately learn more
about this things before I do anything
again....I just thought as long as the
white stuff don't get inside and thats
ok....But I will definately put safety in
the first place after all this.....Can
anyone please tell me what exactly is
going on with my gf? Thanks, your answer
is appreciated!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 08-26-04 23:13pm
You already got several suggestions as to
what is wrong with your girlfriend.
First of all, pregnancy does not cause
blood in pee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is
something wrong with her bladder, kidneys
(probably some kind of infection)
secondly, if you do not know what pre-cum
is then you should not be sexually
active!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pre-cum is
just that, pre-cum. And yes, it can
cause pregnancy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also, it doesn't matter how "deep you are
in."
you two need to take sex ed or something
and maybe consider being sexually active
after you know how babies are made.
