My boyfriend does not last very long when
we have sex which leaves me unsatisfied
and I guess that makes me want sex even
more... Last night he told me I had a
problem because I wanted sex real bad, but
we hadn't had any for 4 days and than 7
days before that! Am I a promiscuous
person or is there something wrong with me
to want sex more than my boyfriend. It's
ruining our realationship... So please
help. Now I feel bad, too! I really want
to make it up to him... What should I do?
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 08-25-04 15:32pm
No.Honey,you are not a promiscuous
person!You just have a higher sex drive
than he does.Too bad he does not see that
for the gift that it is.A lot of men
complain that they have the opposite
problem.Have him satisfy you first(orally
or manually),then worry about him!!! good luck!Patty
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michelle75
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2004 Posts: 5
Posted: 09-01-04 07:54am
You are definately not a promiscuous
person. I have the same problem. You
would only be a promiscuous person if you
went to different men to fulfill your
sexual needs. If you've let your
boyfriend know how you feel then I think
you've done all you can do. If you keep
bringing it up it will really hurt his ego
and he may say hurtful things back to you.
Men are trained to think that they are
supposed to be the ones with the higher
sex drive so when we, as women, have a sex
drive higher than theirs it hurts their
ego. I also think they wonder if we have
always been like that with men in our
pasts and they wonder if we were/are
sluts. I don't know any way to make
things better for you. I wish I did,
believe me. I know exactly how you feel
though.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 09-04-04 04:16am
Oh yeah! I get so freakin mad when
people say that men always want sex and
blah blah. Yeah, they put on that front
but I have never ever had a man that could
keep up with me.
Plus the fact that you aren't satisfied is
a very large part of it. Because you
start to have sex, get all excited, then
he is done and you are just getting
started. That keeps your body needing to
be 'finished". Tell him to discipline
himself and learn stamina. Tell him if
he would please you then you wouldn't want
to have sex right after you just did!
Argh!
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IloveArica
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Texas
Posted: 09-06-04 16:56pm
Omg your not a promiscuous person. Ok
well first off if he is not lasting as
long as you why dont you get him too do
other things too help you finish. Like
oral sex and stuff like that. And heck if
you want sex you want it that doesent mean
that you are a promiscuous person. Mabey
you should masterbate some on your own.
Kayla :d
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 09-06-04 23:22pm
You really just need to lay down the law.
You should't have to masturbate to please
yourself because he cannot do it. Plus,
you shouldn't have to deal with him having
to do "other things" to satisfy you.
Yes, the other things can be wonderful,
but you need a man with control!
good luck!Patty