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already_taken

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Please Ease My Mind
Posted: 08-26-04 09:25am

Hi I am 17 and I am considered the good girl, the one that never really does anyhting wrong. And when my b/f adn I started going out a year ago, my mother made rules, but I knew then that some would be broken.
But the question I needed to ask was, if he did not penatrate me but yet his semen was on me, could I get pregnant, I thought that you had to have his ... Inside of you, I am really scared, the reason I was worried was because I have not had a period this month. Please help me I can't be pregnant.
Thnx
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bellax0x

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Posted: 08-26-04 09:26am

If it was right outside your vagina then yes it possible that you could be pregnant! If you missed your period then I say take a test.

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already_taken

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Posted: 08-26-04 09:33am

But it is not like I can walk to the store and get a test without my parents finding out. I am really scared is there not another way to tell?
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already_taken

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Posted: 08-26-04 09:33am

And how could that have happened? He has to penatrate you doesn't he?
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jessamyn

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Re: Please Ease My Mind
Posted: 08-26-04 09:34am

Plain and simple yes you can... Sorry hun if yourout one day swing by the store unless your obvious about it your parents dont havvve to find out... I mean just take a test if they notice money tell them you went to the movies... But remember hun stressing yourself out can/will lead to pregnancy like symptoms and even a miss of a period. So go take a test or two ....
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bellax0x

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Posted: 08-26-04 10:29am

Your parents dont have to know, ive take plenty! Trust me! And no, he doesnt have to penetrate

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ugadawg

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Posted: 08-26-04 11:35am

If you're 17 you are too young to be worring about such. How late are you starting your period? Can you get away this weekend to purchase a test? Like I said, you are too young to have this pressure, nip it in the bud this weekend by taking a test. Good luck, let us know.
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already_taken

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Posted: 08-26-04 11:39am

I have no way of getting out this weekend, I have to do a barbeque brisket dinner. And I have no way of tellin gif I am late or not becasue I never know when I am going to be on my period, I am always late or early. And I have missed 3-4 months before,(that was before I had my b/f too) I mean I am cramping like I am fixing to go on. But I don't know,
if I am not pregnant. Then my b/f and I are haveing some knew rules. No nothing except for holding hands and a kiss every once and a while.
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linuxChique

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Posted: 08-26-04 11:57am

Good luck, and let us know!
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bellax0x

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Posted: 08-26-04 12:15pm

When was your last period? If it was over 5-6 weeks ago id say take a test whenever you can.

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linuxChique

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Posted: 08-26-04 12:34pm

She said she hasn't had one this month, but she has missed several months in a row before.
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bigmaksmom

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Re: Please Ease My Mind
Posted: 08-26-04 12:50pm

already_taken wrote:


i am really scared, the reason I was worried was because I have not had a period this month. Please help me I can't be pregnant.


Thnx

she said she did not have her period this month and have missed mths at a time before.

(sorry linux I didnt see your post before I did mine!)
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ugadawg

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Posted: 08-26-04 13:22pm

It sounds like your periods are never really regular and that the only reason you are concerned is that you messed around unprotected. If that's the case I wouldn't worry and give it some time until you can get a test. Worring is only going to make your body react worse. Just learn a lesson and calm down for now.
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already_taken

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Posted: 08-28-04 23:00pm

Hey false alarm. I got to thinking that I was baby sitting last month when I went on and that was the like a month ago and went o two days ago. So I dont think I am pregnant. Thnx.
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PattyV

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Posted: 08-29-04 16:58pm

Sounds like you need to have a gyn visit and discuss birth control methods.Playing the am I or am I not game every month gets to be very nervewracking.Get a reliable birth control method and use it consistantly!Patty
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