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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 711
Location: Springfield,Illinois
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My Mother She Wants River..................
Posted: 08-26-04 18:10pm
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Okay I get home early today to see my lil
monkey.......I couldnt come home last nite
how can I be a good mommy if I was pissed
off and angry and just totally frustrated
I couldnt be I knew river was safe so I
called and checked up on him a couple
times and I did as well when I got up this
morning......Well I come home and my mom
is going to try and get guardianship of
him.....Im like exscuse me.....How am I an
unfit mother I stayed away because I didnt
want my son to see my like that I stayed
away because I needed to clear my head and
that be4 I could come and take care of
him.....U guys im freaking out because she
could get it pretty easily seeing as
knowing her she will throw in neglect
because of last nite knowing her she will
say I cant take care of him because im not
on my own and a bunch of other caca im
scared to death I cant lose my baby I
seriously cant girls I would die be4 I let
anybody take him from me! What should I
do?
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sweetangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2004
Posts: 305
Location: Fort Stockton Texas
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Posted: 08-26-04 18:18pm
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Talk to her hopefully shell understand and
if she dosent fight it ti last point
good luck hun i'll keep u in my prayers
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 08-26-04 18:46pm
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I'm sorry sweety, I dont know what to
say....I'll keep you in my prayers.
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 08-26-04 18:59pm
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Jeni,
im so sorry she is putting you through
this. Maybe shes trying to shock you out
of seeing raven. Im sure it will be
alright. You did the right thing last
night. Yeah if you had left for weeks on
end that might be a little bad, but not
one night. Im here if ya want me
suzi
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-26-04 19:00pm
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How old are you? If she tries, all you
have to do is show them that you are
working, and going to school to get a
career. And just explain that you didn't
want to be upset around river, no parent
should. Your mother won't win unless,
there is overwhelming evidence proving
that you are on drugs, hurting river, or
something else that is that terrible. If
your mother really thinks that she can get
guardianship, just by saying that you are
not out on your own, and that you didn't
come home one night, after she put you out
of the car, she is really folling herself.
So don't worry just take care of your
son, and keep working hard.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 08-26-04 19:28pm
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I don't think she's got a chance. The
only thing she has against you is that you
stayed out all night one night? No chance
in he||. She has no right to him! Why
couldn't any joe schmoe off the street
decide he wanted to sue you for custody?
That's ridiculous. I don't think you've
got anything to worry about.
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-26-04 20:59pm
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Gosh. I'm sorry jeni. Call me.
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004
Posts: 772
Location: houston
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Posted: 08-26-04 21:10pm
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Wow thats a tough situation try and talk
to her calmly about the whole situation
and if she still tries to take river away
then I would say you get the hell outta
there and try and find a place to crash.
Meagan and baby girl
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MegEve
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2003
Posts: 353
Location: Alabama
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Posted: 08-26-04 21:35pm
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Huni, I am so sorry. You do not deserve
to be going through this. You are the
best mother to your son. He is a happy
baby who has food in his belly, plays
great, is happy, has a dry bottom, and is
loved more than anything else in the
world. You will not lose river. You
are his mother and you take care of him,
plain and simple. We all love you and
are behind you 100%. Just let us know
what we can do!
Love,
megan
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 08-26-04 21:38pm
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Oh wow im so sorry that youre going thru
this jeni! Hopefully you can talk to her
and get through this!!
<3
gaby
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 08-27-04 08:46am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-19-04 15:09pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 08-27-04 14:56pm
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I have to agree with jennifer. I dont
think that you should have ever left
river. I mean what if you were out on
your own and got mad and didnt think that
you could take care of your baby, would
you have just left him. And excuse me
but what if they two of you, who are
supposed to be mature, would have gotten
caught trespassing. The money that
should be for river would have gone to
fines. That was immature.
I am with your mother. Im sorry.
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 273
Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-27-04 16:05pm
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I dont know what to say but good luck, I
really hope everything works out for you
for lil rivers sake. I dont think your
mom has a chance but try and get a place
on your own. Can you afford it where u
are? Is raven willing to help with the
rent?
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-28-04 08:41am
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Sorry girl, I am with stacie and jennifer.
I know what it is like to be frustrated
and angry. Believe me I do. But I would
not leave josh especially without asking
my mo if it was ok that he stay with her.
U have got to start thinking about the
consequences of your actions. Why the
hell do u think I havent beaten that girl
down in my algebra class? Lol. I love u
and I dont want your mom to have custody,
but you need to start thinking more hun.
Think about river not raven. At this
point, raven shouldn't have any real
significance in your choices after what he
did to u. Take it slow and let him know
what happened with your mom. If he really
loves u, he will understand and back off
for a while.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 08-28-04 08:53am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-19-04 15:09pm; edited 1 time in total
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 08-28-04 09:04am
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Yeh im deff with chrissy!
<3
gaby
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-28-04 09:23am
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I feel wierd. Once again I am with
chrissy! Lol. Chrissy write and I
agree!! 
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