I Think I Got Her Preg. the 1st Time Posted: 09-30-03 23:37pm
I've really screwed up. Exactly one week
ago from today my gf and I had sex for the
first time. I used a condom and used the
"pull out" method. But this is where it
gets complicated, she was supposed to have
her period the week befor we had sex, but
she didnt. She said its normal for her to
be a week late, but now she's two weeks
late and we're really scared. We're both
only 15 and would be grounded for the rest
of our lives if she did turn out to be
pregnant(seriously)! Please tell me
she's just late because it was her first
time.
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katiebear
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003 Posts: 2 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 10-01-03 01:20am
Did you wear the condom the entire time?
Or did you put it on after you already
starting having sex? If you wore the
condom the entire time and it didn't break
or anything, then she is most likely not
pregnant.. Is she on any medications or
hormones or anything? Stress can also
cause a period to be late or missed...
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 10-01-03 04:58am
Dear johnny,
i got my first period at 13 but it never
became regular until I was 16 years of
age. Does she ever have regular periods
normally ? If you wore a condom and your
sure it never broke then she won't be
pregnant. I mean you wore a condom and
pulled out when you came, so it would have
to be a miracle for your sperm to get
through the rubber. If you are both
concerned about it, there are places you
can go together and get a pregnancy test
or simply buy a test from the supermarket
or chemist, that is the only way to know
for sure and put your mind at ease. In
the meantime, maybe you could suggest she
starts a course of birth control pills now
that you are both sexually active. By the
way, good on you for using a condom and
also for coming here and seeking help.
You sound very responsible, your
girlfriend is lucky to have a caring
person like you in her life.
Regards,
.::suzy::.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 10-01-03 09:10am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-27-04 12:19pm; edited 1 time in total
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Posted: 10-01-03 10:02am
Hey, no shes prolly not pregnant shes
prolly late becuase shes worrying about it
so much and because it was her first time.
Keep her calm good luck ~misty
