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ScaredBaka
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Boyfriend Smells Badly "down There"
Posted: 08-27-04 23:56pm
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I've noticed [very easily, mind you] that
my boyfriend's genitals simply smell like
something had died in his pants. He
thinks it's from years of masturbation and
ejaculating in his pants and the semen
somehow "implanting" in his skin. He's
obviously no sparring gynecologist. Even
after a shower and a good, firm cleansing
in that area, it still reeks.
I also know for a fact that he's a virgin
and has never made any "secondary" sexual
contact, like oral or anal, so I think I
can safely rule out the possibility of any
stds.
......
Under these circumstances, does anyone
know what could possibly be causing this
horrible smell?
......
Scaredbaka
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aanifant
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Posted: 08-28-04 05:40am
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Does he wash there thoroughly and every
day? Also, tell him to cut some of that
hair off--it's a breeding ground for
bacteria producing odor
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shawn0000
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Posted: 08-28-04 20:37pm
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I was wondering is he circumcised?
Because some people I know say circumcised
men never stink ever. Thats why I asked.
May be that playes a part because he does
not clean under his forskin may be?
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ScaredBaka
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Posted: 08-29-04 19:05pm
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That could very well be, shawn0000. My
boyfriend isn't circumcised. But then
again I don't think he knows how to do the
whole retraction of foreskin thing
either.
Well, he says he isn't circumcised...I
have never seen an uncircumcised male so I
don't know the difference between the two
o.O o.O
but i'll ask him if he's sure. I also
told him i'd ask a physician about it. Do
you guys know if gynecology deals
specifically with women or does it cover
both genders?
..........
Scaredbaka
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PattyV
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Posted: 08-29-04 19:32pm
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Gynecology is for women.A urologist would
be able to help him if he is not
circumsized.Patty
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shawn0000
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Posted: 08-29-04 21:19pm
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| scaredbaka
wrote: | that could very well be,
shawn0000. My boyfriend isn't
circumcised. But then again I don't
think he knows how to do the whole
retraction of foreskin thing either.
Well, he says he isn't circumcised...I
have never seen an uncircumcised male so I
don't know the difference between the two
o.O o.O
but i'll ask him if he's sure. I also
told him i'd ask a physician about it.
Do you guys know if gynecology deals
specifically with women or does it cover
both genders?
..........
Scaredbaka |
well I am not circumcised and all I do to
is pull the skin that covers the head of
his penis and clean under it. So far that
has kept me from smelling down there. So
good luck
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ScaredBaka
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Posted: 08-30-04 19:24pm
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Well I did a dogpile search for my own
references, and from what I saw, I think I
can safely say that he is circumcised,
because there is no foreskin that covers
the head of his penis. So that can be
ruled out as well.
And thank you, patty, for the advice. I
had contacted a gynecologist earlier this
afternoon and they told me that his best
bet would be to make an appointment. The
only thing they told me was that it could
be an infection (very general, I know...)
.........
I don't think he's going to be very fly
about having a stranger touching him,
though. He's really antsy. But I guess I
probably would be too.
Thanks for all your help, though. I
appreciate it ^-^
.....
Scaredbaka - will have to simply coat him
with after shave from now on
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-04-04 03:51am
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He needs to clean himself.
You can get infections from that.
Your boyfriend really needs some sex ed
and just some general ed about his body.
You don't smell from years of
masturabation. He needs to practice
personal hygiene.
You said in a couple previous posts that
your boyfriend is not circumcised. How
did you not know? You said that he told
you that he wasn't...Doesn't he know the
difference?
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shawn0000
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Posted: 09-04-04 16:25pm
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I hate to say it most guys don’t actually
know whether there circumcised or not.
You probably could ask most guys and get
the answer isn’t that a jewish thing?
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-04-04 16:42pm
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I have never met a guy who didn't know if
he was circumcised or not. How could you
not know? It is obvious....And it isn't
a jewish thing. I mean, yes, jewish men
are circumcised but so are most of the
other american men. Very silly. I
don't think I would want to date a guy who
didn't even know if he as circumcised or
not!Lol! That is like me not knowing if
I had hair on my cookie or not.
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ScaredBaka
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Posted: 09-06-04 02:37am
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I think he believed that he wasn't
circumcisedbecause he made a wise comment
about his yank to his friend when they
were turtle hunting at the local pond, and
I suppose that my boyfriend thought he
wasn't "cut", because he says the head of
his penis retracts beneath the skin
(painfully sometimes) when it's completely
flat. Neither one of us knew what the
anatomy of an uncircumcised male looked
like, so we assumed.
But anyway, I asked about this on another
message board, and someone said it could
possibly be something called gardenella or
gardnerella or something along those
lines. I've never heard of it. have you
guys?
and not only does his genital area stink,
but his belly button stinks even worse for
some reason. With both those topics on
that other message board, many people
suggested an infectious or fungal growth
in his skin.
.............
Any thoughts?
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shawn0000
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Posted: 09-06-04 16:09pm
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Well I have never had any infection of any
sort. So I can not relate. But I have
smelled on occasion because I did not
shower or something. But then again I am
not circumcised so who knows.
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IloveArica
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Posted: 09-06-04 16:39pm
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 I dont know
anything about that but good luck,
kayla
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-06-04 23:28pm
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Belly buttons stink when not washed.
Other than that, I don't know.
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June4life
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Posted: 09-06-04 23:45pm
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Scaredbaka, go to google.Com and click
images and then put it "circumsized penis"
or "uncircumsized penis" it will show
pictures of flaccid and erect penis. Then
he will know which one he is! Lol
as for the smelly problem.... Does he
wash good between his legs? I mean way up
between his legs, like his lower crotch
area? I dont want to be rude in any way,
but is he rather heavy?? It could just be
hard for him to reach a certain spot. My
bf is not heavy, but he often has an odor
down there. Its not a bad odor, just
like... A sweaty smell. Not like bo
though! Its nothing repulsive though, I
still go down on him willingly!! Hah
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Kia
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Posted: 09-07-04 07:24am
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How deep is his belly button?
I suffer from infections in my belly
button because it is really deep (i can't
see the end of it and a q-tip will go in
about 1/2 way before it touches the end
 )
but I know this so I put anti-septic into
it and make sure I dry it real well with
cotton buds after I shower.
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ScaredBaka
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:47pm
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His belly button has always had an odor to
it, and he only washes it if the smell is
really bad. But lately it's been smelling
worse because it's been bleeding for no
apparent reason from the inside o.O
| june4life
wrote: | | i dont want to be rude in
any way, but is he rather
heavy?? |
don't worry, you aren't being rude ^-^.
But yes he is heavier than most guys
(about 245 pounds), and I know this is
mean to say about him, but he does have a
bit of a gut on him. He says that he
doesn't like washing too far down because
of his testicles (yes he's very
sensitive). I know how he smells when
it's only body odor, and I can handle
that...But this stench smells like
something dead and festering. I usually
yack when I smell it and I sometimes have
to hold my breath if I give him oral sex
>.<
he wants me to come and stay with him this
summer for a year...Perhaps I can wash
down there for him when he's in the shower
- he might like that :d
but until then, i'm going to keep trying
to persuade him to go and get a check up,
if not for his genitals, then for his
belly button, which has bled three times
since saturday.
............
Scaredbaka
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June4life
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:53pm
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Okay, if his belly button is bleeding,
there is a problem. I'm almost positive
he has some sort of a cyst on his stomach
right inside his bellybutton. My
boyfriend had this on his lower back,
right above where his butt crack started.
All of the sudden he just had this hole in
his back, and it turned out it was a cyst.
He had it removed and then had to pack it
with gauze for a couple weeks afterwards.
His dr said its common for teenaged men to
get these cysts on their lowerback, and
stomach/abdomen area.
My bf is also 250 pounds. Mainly muscle,
but he goes have a gut. He does not smell
at all however. I think your boyfriend
might have a yeast infection down by his
testicles. This is common in all sweaty
areas of the body that arent properly
washed, especially in males. He really
needs to go to the doctor and get things
cleared up. All the doc will do is give
him an ointment to put down there, its no
big deal!!!
How old is he? I think its a little
immature that he knows he smells down
there, and wont do anything about it. Who
wants to date the smelly kid??
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Kia
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:57pm
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I too have had bleeding from my belly
button (scared me half to death)
my doc said I just got a boil in there
(cos it's deep) and it must have burst.
This has happened a couple of times but so
far not since I put anti-septic cream on a
cotton wool ball most nights and pop it
in.
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-08-04 19:11pm
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Ummm, that could be one of the problems.
If he only washes it when it smells really
bad? Your boyfriend really needs some
personal hygiene lessons.
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