Hello my husband came home on the 23 of
july and I havent got my period and I just
found out that I am pregnant but the thing
is I cheated on him when he was gone in
like the beginning of july and the doctor
said I got pregnant around the first to
second week of august so can it be his
please anserw asap thanks
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 08-28-04 10:29am
When was your last period? My last
period was on july 25th and i'm pretty
sure i'm pregnant now and if I am it was
concieved around the first week in august.
However, the average person would have
concieved between like the 9th and the
12th. It depends really on when you
ovulate. Chances are it's your husbands
baby. Anyways, I won't comment on your
affair I will just say I hope you learn
from this stress you're going through.
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jus808
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2004 Posts: 9 Location: virginia
Posted: 08-28-04 11:09am
Well my last period was on the 22 so do
you think it is his baby and yes I have
learned believe me
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 08-28-04 12:06pm
Well, if it's the 22nd of july than yes
it's probably your husbands baby. Unless
your period was implantation bleeding or
something than it could be the other guys
baby. Was your period like normal? If
it was normal than your husband would be
the father. Good luck!
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jus808
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2004 Posts: 9 Location: virginia
Posted: 08-28-04 17:24pm
Yes it was a normal period so yea then it
is my husbands thanks for helping me alot
pitterpatter your advice is appreciated
thank you
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Earth Mother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 20
Posted: 11-04-04 16:08pm
Did you use protection with the other man?
If you covered your steps there, you
should be fine.
Even if it isn't your husband's, do the
two men have similar coloring?
If you can't possibly bring yourself to
tell your hubby, or if you don't think it
could do any good to bring up the matter,
perhaps you can pass the child off as your
husband's regardless.
Hang in there, and good luck! :d
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jus808
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2004 Posts: 9 Location: virginia
Posted: 11-08-04 11:57am
Wellno I didnt and my husband and him are
like the same color but when I went to the
doctors on sep 2 they couldnt see the baby
the ultrasound pic was just clear so I
really think that it is his. Because I
slept with the guy in the beginning of
july and I didnt have my period towards
the end of august so it is his right
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cphilyaw
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 95 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 11-24-04 13:06pm
Hi, sweetie, if I could I would like to
give you a little word of advice;tell your
husband! It may seem like something
emotional you cant handle or the drama
that may come along with it if you tell
now but eventually it will come out. It
will be easier to deal with it now before
the baby is born than after the baby is
born. At least if you tell now you have
a chance of making it right if it is your
husbands. Plus after a while not knowing
who is the father will get the best of
you. I know the chances of the baby
being your husbands is greater but you can
never tell a freind of mine had her period
during 7 months of her being pregnant.
Good luck with the situaution and I wish
you the best for you and your baby. And
your marriage
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cphilyaw
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 95 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 11-24-04 13:07pm
Hi, sweetie, if I could I would like to
give you a little word of advice;tell your
husband! It may seem like something
emotional you cant handle or the drama
that may come along with it if you tell
now but eventually it will come out. It
will be easier to deal with it now before
the baby is born than after the baby is
born. At least if you tell now you have
a chance of making it right if it is your
husbands. Plus after a while not knowing
who is the father will get the best of
you. I know the chances of the baby
being your husbands is greater but you can
never tell a freind of mine had her period
during 7 months of her being pregnant.
Good luck with the situaution and I wish
you the best for you and your baby. And
your marriage
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cphilyaw
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 95 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 11-24-04 13:07pm
Hi, sweetie, if I could I would like to
give you a little word of advice;tell your
husband! It may seem like something
emotional you cant handle or the drama
that may come along with it if you tell
now but eventually it will come out. It
will be easier to deal with it now before
the baby is born than after the baby is
born. At least if you tell now you have
a chance of making it right if it is your
husbands. Plus after a while not knowing
who is the father will get the best of
you. I know the chances of the baby
being your husbands is greater but you can
never tell a freind of mine had her period
during 7 months of her being pregnant.
Good luck with the situaution and I wish
you the best for you and your baby. And
your marriage
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cphilyaw
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 95 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 11-24-04 13:11pm
Sorry about the message posting 3 times, I
registered just so I could give you my
opinion
