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bugbunny
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Can't Do Oral Sex
Posted: 08-30-04 23:07pm
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Hi.
I am 28 male
i like a lot to do oral sex. I do it on
my wife's. But unfortunately, she has a
mouth too small to get my thing in. Mine
is about 7 inches long. And my wife can't
even get the top part in. Iam so much
depressed . What can we do ? Pls help.
Is my penny too big. What's the average
size ?
Pls reply
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TX_momy
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Whatever !!!!
Posted: 08-31-04 20:13pm
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Size dont matter if you know how to work
it with.... Just buy some toys for you
and her ..... Check the internet on adult
toys !!!! 
good luck and have fun :p
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 09-02-04 07:29am
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The length of your "thing" isn't what
matters about whether it fits in the mouth
or not, is it? Surely it's the
diameter/circumference! I think if your
wife can't even "get the top part in" then
it's probably because she doesn't actually
want to, unless maybe she's had her jaws
wired shut. Have you discussed this with
her? Maybe you could start with a bit of
chocolate sauce, and just have her lick it
off.
And I hate to burst your bubble, but 7
inches isn't particularly huge -- I think
the average is really around 5.5 to 6
inches, from my recollection.
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PattyV
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Posted: 09-03-04 10:14am
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Oral loving can be many things,not just
the woman engulfing the penis in her
mouth.Yes,some can do this ,but everyone's
different.Like poopoopoo said,try some
different things to help her.Maybe she
finds this distastful and just does not
want to give you oral.Maybe she does have
limitations in her jaw opening.Have her
try licking and nibbling and using her
hands instead of the deep throat
approach.Maybe with some practice she
might change your mind about oral !Patty
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pitterpatter
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Posted: 09-03-04 10:21am
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Maybe i'm an odd one, but i've never been
able to do that. I find it totally
disgusting. Maybe she feels that way
too. I know some women are totally okay
with it, but there's some like me who gag
at the thought.
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-04-04 04:10am
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She could be repulsed by it or it may just
not fit in her mouth! You know, some men
do have large penis'. My ex fiance's
barely fit. And even though it did "fit"
I really couldn't do much after it was in
there. And I don't even consider him
particularly big.
If it doesn't fit then there isn't
anything that you can do. I mean, short
of breaking her jaw. Sorry about your
luck bud, but that is just the way you two
are built and if it won't work it won't
work.
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NYGUY
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Posted: 09-07-04 19:26pm
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I'm sorry but there is no way that it
doesn't fit in her mouth. You are not
that large and we are not talking about
how deep she can take it. I am sure her
mouth can open wide enough to fit in her
mouth. Think about how wide your mouth
can open! Unless you are as thick as the
opening of a drinking glass, there is no
reason that she cant do it. It is far
more likely that she simply does not like
doing it. I am about 8.5 inches long and
kind of on the thick side and I have not
met a girl who was unable to fit me in her
mouth. I have however met some who do not
like it and I would never press the issue.
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C-rose
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Posted: 09-08-04 01:34am
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I think your penny is average. I don't
really know what to say about your wifes
mouth being to little. May be you should
invest in a pocket vagina. I used to use
it on my boyfriend sometimes when I wasn't
to happy with him because I didn't want to
spoil him by always giving him one of my
best talents. It's not as good as the
real thing . But its better than nothing.
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-08-04 16:02pm
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Sorry buddy, but yes it can be too
big!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He said it was 7
inches long! He didn't say anything
about how wide it is! And not all women
have mouths like porno stars! I couldn't
fit anything in my mouth that was half as
wide as the top of a drinking
glass!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry, you may be getting jealous or
something, but don't dare say it isn't
possible!!!!!!!!!! My friend just started
dating a guy who she said there is no way
in hell she could even begin to fit it
into her mouth as it is huge! Some men do
have very large penises. Yes, black or
white!!!!!!!!
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NYGUY
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Posted: 09-08-04 20:29pm
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Hotasfrick... I am not talking about how
deep she can take it... I am talking
about width. He said that she cant fit
it in her mouth. I find it hard to
believe that any penis is that thick...
And at the size he mentioned, I don't
think it is that thick. Open your mouth
real wide and tell me if you have ever
encountered a penis larger than the
diameter of your open mouth. I was
simply saying that it was more likely that
she does not enjoy doing it and that he
maybe should not press the issue.
And as a side note, I have nothing to be
jealous about and i'm not sure where that
came from.
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-09-04 03:43am
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I was only kidding about the jealousy
part.
And I know you mean thick! Yes, there
are penises that thick! We all don't
have porn star mouths, and some men do
have large penises.
It doesn't have to be a certain length to
be really thick. You can have a four or
five inch penis that is really huge in
girth. This guy is 7 which is above
average and could very well be too large
for her to fit into her mouth.
I have had a penis that was almost too big
to fit in my mouth. I listed that in my
first reponse. And I have a friend who
just started dating this guy whose is so
big that no, she cannot fit it into her
mouth. It is possible!
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tripleA
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Here's An Idea!
Posted: 09-09-04 16:40pm
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I love giving oral more than I like
receiving it. But I have tmj, which
sometimes can make opening my mouth wide
enough difficult. But I have figured out
a way that I can "give it" without using
my mouth. Lotsof k-y and her hand. Kinda
show her how to grip firmly around the
shaft with lots of k-y while putting her
other hand in a cupping shape over the top
as she goes up and down. Does that make
sense?! It drives my husband wild.
Triplea
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-10-04 01:29am
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You mean give him a hand job instead?
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tripleA
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Posted: 09-10-04 09:39am
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Yeah, that's the word I was looking for!
Just figure out different ways to do it as
oppose to a simple "hand job" it is a lot
of fun trying different things! 
triplea
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PattyV
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Posted: 09-10-04 15:28pm
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Where there's a will there's a way!!!!
patty
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Demore
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Headway!
Posted: 09-30-04 20:56pm
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Yeah I think she just insecure about head
in general. Some people have a fear of
not being able to break, choking, or
throwing up. As for my own opinion I
don't see how a woman could stick a penis
in her vagina and yet say gross when she
puts it in her mouth! For christs sake
the virgina is one of the cleanest parts
in the body. And a bite from a human can
cause infections! Go figure... I suggest
if she really "can't" try just massaging
with a combo of a handjob and some
licking. If you can get her to go for
your balls. If she can master that she
might be able to work her self up to start
on your head.
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cdj32
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Posted: 10-11-04 22:36pm
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My boyfriend is 9 inches and a very good
size in diameter. I am able to get it
into my mouth. I am not able to take his
whole penis in my mouth, but I am at least
able to move it around in there. I agree
with most of the replies. It sounds like
she doesn't really wanna do it for you.
Try starting with something small like the
one person said i.E. Chocolate sauce,
whip cream etc. See how that works...
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2ferano
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Posted: 10-11-04 22:42pm
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I am sticking with the fact that if she
can't do it, she can't do it. Why does
she automatically just not want to?
Not all women have porn star mouths and
not all men have small penises and
therefore it is possible for it to just
not fit!
But anywho, there is a big difference in
putting it into your vagina and into your
mouth. I mean if you really think about
it you are putting something in your mouth
that the guy pees out of. I mean, I have
done oral and will do it if the guy really
deserves it, but it really isn't the most
hygenic thing in the world. It all comes
down to everything else that has to do
with sex. It is all a personal
preference. But, it really isn't fair to
say that she can, but just doesn't want
to.
I have said it before and I will say it
again. I have personally dated a guy
whose penis did not and could not fit into
my mouth. It really does happen!
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Daile
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Posted: 10-13-04 01:52am
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It is possible that she doesn't want to
perform oral sex, in which case I don't
think starting off with food stuffs is a
good idea. Talk to her about it!! It
could be that she performed oral sex on a
man before and he wasn't clean, etc. I
know several guys who stopped performing
oral sex after one smelly girl, so it's
possible she feels the same way.
Also, it is entirely possible to not be
able to give head. Lots of people can't
do it for many reasons. Not only is there
the possibility that it won't fit, but you
also have to consider how her mouth is set
up. If she has an incredibly sensitive
gag reflex then even taking in a little
bit of the penis could make her throw up.
Knowing this, she may not want to try.
Daile
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Daile
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Posted: 10-13-04 01:53am
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It is possible that she doesn't want to
perform oral sex, in which case I don't
think starting off with food stuffs is a
good idea. Talk to her about it!! It
could be that she performed oral sex on a
man before and he wasn't clean, etc. I
know several guys who stopped performing
oral sex after one smelly girl, so it's
possible she feels the same way.
Also, it is entirely possible to not be
able to give head. Lots of people can't
do it for many reasons. Not only is there
the possibility that it won't fit, but you
also have to consider how her mouth is set
up. If she has an incredibly sensitive
gag reflex then even taking in a little
bit of the penis could make her throw up.
Knowing this, she may not want to try.
Daile
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