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Michelle1337

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Location: Houston, Texas
Just An Update
Posted: 08-31-04 17:12pm

Well, just so you know.

This is prolly gonna be long...

Chris finally admitted to me yesterday that he hadnt told his parents about me being pregnant. So I told him that I was going to call them and tell them today if he didnt. And so he did. And they're making him move out by wednesday. We had a huge fight when he called my back to tell me he told them, although I was actually happy afterwards.

It went something like this...

He told me that he told them and then told me that he hated me and that the only reason that I made him tell them was becuz he wouldnt take me back. And then I tried to say something in my deffense and he inturrupted me and goes, "dont say anything, what you have to say means about as much to me as what heather(his dog) would leave in the backyard." and then he went on and on about how i'm a prostitute and how much he hates me. He actually called me a prostitute. And told me he had a girlfriend and that she treats him better then I ever did. And that he didnt want to have anything to do with me ever again...

And then when I finally got me piece in I told him that I was glad we were finally in agreement on something. That I dont wanna have anything to do with him either. I told him I was happy he had a girlfriend and that he's happy and that I was sorry that he's being such an fool and blaming this all on me cuz it takes two to make a baby. And I told him that I was sorry but he was just gonna have to deal with me until I can get the paperwork together for him to sign over his parental rights and once he had he could be rid of me forever.

So yeah, thats basically how it went. I still cant believe he called me prostitute and actually said that the only reason I wanted his parents to know was to get back him for not taking me back. I was .L.M.A.O.

Oh and my sister was great too, she yelled at him and goes "you stupid boy! Michelle treated you better then you'll ever know! Your just d@mn lucky she stayed with you as long as she did!!!! I hope your new girlfriend finds out what a compulsive liar you are and dumps your sorry @ss!!!" lol - it was funny.

But yeah, I just thought i'd fill you guys in on my "boys suck @ss" story. Lol

i am just so happy its finally over...
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tweety12986

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Joined: 25 Jun 2004
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Location: houston

Posted: 08-31-04 17:19pm

Well i'm happy for you and at least now you know it wont be a battle for him to sign his rights over. I'm glad u didnt let him upset you cuz thats not good for nathan.
Meagan
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Kia

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Joined: 23 Jun 2004
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Location: Planet Tampaxia,

Posted: 08-31-04 17:20pm

Well himself is 34 and still hasn't told his parents I am nearly 3 months pregnant and I would never push him to do so. I know he will come round to it in his own time. He is still coming to terms with it all himself. I told my parents but that is beacuse I am confident in myself and knew I would be fine whatever their reaction.
Himself has had parents pushing him to "find some one settle down have babies carry on the family name" for years, then his parents decided he must be gay (how about just shy). Then I came along so they were faced with the fact he isn't gay. Now he feels if he tells them they will say he should have been more careful. Can't win with parents.
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Michelle1337

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Joined: 04 Aug 2004
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Location: Houston, Texas

Posted: 08-31-04 17:31pm

Yeah well the whole deal was that chris lied to me for three months about telling them. He told me he had told them 3 months ago. So it was really frustrating to find that he hadnt. And the only reason the he hadnt was because he wanted his dad to buy him this car. He was being selfish. If he had just said to me, i'm not ready for them to know. I woulda been fine. Its that he lied for 3 months.
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Kia

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Posted: 08-31-04 17:37pm

That puts a bit of a different slant on things, but why did you need ofr his parents to know, what were you hoping for? Oh poo i'm just being my old nosey self now Rolling Eyes
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Michelle1337

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Posted: 08-31-04 17:40pm

Well, at first I wanted them to know because I thought maybe they could slap some responsibility into the boy. But I dont know, I guess I dont care so much anymore now that things are over. I just think they should know, dont you? I would wanna know if nathaniel ever got someone pregnant.
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KissyBai912

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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
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Location: Venice, Florida

Posted: 08-31-04 18:31pm

Me too. If josh ever got someone pregnant, I would wanna know about it! I would wanna know if I had a grandbaby on the way! I wanna be the kind of mom who lets her sons preggo g.F live with them if she gets kicked out! Lol! (provided she isnt a promiscuous person lol) or something like that. But I plan on asking all his g/f to get on birth control. I will take them and pay for it myself if I have to! lmao! I want to be a cool mom! Lol!
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Michelle1337

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Posted: 08-31-04 18:43pm

Lol - I am going to try and enforce no sex b4 marriage. But I hope that if he ever wanted to he would atleast come to me and be like mom, can you get so and so and birth control. Haha.
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smith8500

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Location: Louisiana
Hey
Posted: 08-31-04 18:51pm

Well, he sounds like a sorry son-of-a-biotch! Girl, stay away form that trash! You don't need it!
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Michelle1337

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Location: Houston, Texas

Posted: 08-31-04 19:00pm

Lol, I love you chanda...
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Riversmommy

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Posted: 08-31-04 19:09pm

Get him 4 child support
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Michelle1337

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Posted: 08-31-04 19:20pm

I would if I needed it. But I dont...And I dont want him to have even that much to do with me.
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insurancegirl

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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
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Posted: 09-01-04 09:46am

Arrow


Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-26-04 15:22pm; edited 1 time in total
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Katherine19

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Joined: 22 Aug 2004
Posts: 248
Location: Houston

Posted: 09-01-04 22:04pm

Good job!! You didnt need that drama in your life. :d I wish you the best of luck in life and with your baby boy!
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