Hello my name is brenda and I just
misscarried my 3rd child last week...Which
I knew I was going to coz they didnt find
a heartbeat on the ultrasound I dont get
it tho I have 2 healthy boys already its
just hard for me to accept this I wanted
this baby sooo bad too everything I hear
thats sad like a song or tv show I cry and
cry and cry...This is my first
misscarriage and hopefully my last...I
wouldnt wish this apon anyone I didnt like
coz its horrible
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lusciouskiss16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Posts: 516 Location: Missouri
Posted: 09-01-04 12:02pm
Im really sorry. I couldnt even imagine
what you are going through. Good luck
though..If you need someone to talk to pm
me..Im always here. Good luck..
Ash
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 09-01-04 15:07pm
Often if a miscarriage occurs very early
in the pregnancy - it is due to a foetal
abnormality which would mean it couldn't
survive. I know this doesn't make it any
easier for you but, it also doesn't mean
anything is wrong with you either.
Until pregnancy tests developed to become
so accurate many women would miscarry and
put it down to a heavy/late period and
have not known that they were pregnant.
Take some "me" time and come to terms with
your loss, and if and when you fell
comfortable with things again then go
ahead and try for another baby.
Remember having another baby does not
replace the one you lost, it add's to your
family as an individual.