Kia
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Cross-dressing
Posted: 09-02-04 03:34am
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Just a quick thought, how would any of you
guys feel if your partner sat you down one
night and told you his most deep secret -
he is a cross dresser - remember he has
trusted you to tell you this which must be
hard to do.
Would it affect your relationship? Would
it depend on how long you had been
together?
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-02-04 04:52am
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You mean if it was your boyfriend? It
would scare the crap out of me! I
wouldn't want to stay with him because I
would be afraid he would eventually leave
me for a man. Just a fear though. If
he really just liked to dress up like a
girl, then I wouldn't care! It would be
weird, and funny, but hey, we all have our
"things"
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Kia
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Posted: 09-02-04 06:37am
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Yeah, your boyfriend or husband or
whatever.
They know they are definately not gay and
not interested in homosexual experiences
but just like to wear female clothing.
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posted: 09-02-04 07:14am
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Wow thats an interesting question...
Where did you come up with that?
Truthfully, I would be rather creeped out
and I dont know if I could stay with him
(me and kevin have been together for over
a year and a half).
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 09-02-04 07:16am
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Lmao, I could never see chris doing that,
but id stay and try to get him out of it!
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posted: 09-02-04 07:33am
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I couldnt see kevin doing that either, and
if I were to find out he was, I would feel
like I dont even know the guy im with.
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lusciouskiss16
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Posted: 09-02-04 09:16am
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If he wasnt interested in men..I think id
be okay..Hey it could always be some fun.!
Lol.I dunno really.. 
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 09-02-04 10:14am
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I dunno. I think i'd be megga creeped
out!
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linuxChique
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Posted: 09-02-04 10:28am
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Yeah, that would be super weird.
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babyrae
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Posted: 09-02-04 10:30am
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Ah that would be so scary! I coudlnt see
tim bein like that at all.... But I dont
know what id do if I found out.
Shauna
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ERICA83
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Posted: 09-02-04 11:37am
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Ewww I couldnt handle that. I would still
be his friend and support him but as far
as a intimate relationship between me and
him well that would be tossed out the
window. I need a real man not some lil
sissy human boy. ~ erica.
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freemanashley
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Posted: 09-03-04 09:53am
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Lol, I don't think they make high heels in
my husbands size
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 09-03-04 12:21pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-29-04 13:48pm; edited 1 time in total
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Kia
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Posted: 09-03-04 14:39pm
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Where did I come up with that???
I live that! He told me before we
developed a relationship. I can assure
you he isn't confused about his sexuality
- is definately straight.
Lol and there is no way you could call him
a lil sissy boy.
It's not frequent maybe once every couple
of months and usually just underwear under
his normal clothes or loose trousers n
tee-shirt.
I'm cool with it and the fact he can tap
into his "feminine side" helps him to deal
with girly issues like pmt and "does my
bum look big in this". And when I go
shopping I get an honest answer if I say
do you like this, or he'll tell me another
colour would be better or something.
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 09-03-04 15:14pm
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 09-03-04 15:18pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-29-04 13:48pm; edited 1 time in total
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bellax0x
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Posted: 09-03-04 15:34pm
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Thats a weird question. And idk bc I suck
at answering hypothetical question..
Thats odd about your bf but I guess if
your ok with it then its cool!
<3
gaby
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PattyV
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Posted: 09-03-04 19:30pm
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As long as he left the la perla alone,i
would be fine with it.It would be hard to
see my husband dressed as a woman,he has
great legs and would look better than I
do!Seriously,if he was good enough to tell
you,rather than finding out on your
own,try to understand and support him.It
must have been very difficult for him to
tell you.(it was you,correct?).We all have
our quirks and as long as it's
discreet,shouldn't be a problem.Patty
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-03-04 22:36pm
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Well, women can wear baseball caps and guy
t-shirts. Even if they aren't gay.
It would definately weird me out. Like,
I most likely would never start dating a
guy who I knew crossed-dressed, but if we
were already in love then I wouldn't leave
him for it.
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Kia
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Posted: 09-04-04 01:52am
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I had already spent over 6 months flirting
and chasing the poor bloke and he hadn't
yet cottoned on that I liked him a lot and
wanted to be more than friends - poor
naive innocent blokey 
i knew deep down there was gonna be some
secret, but I thought it was gonna be the
ex-girlfriend (been with his "best mate"
for 8-9 years now!), the termination of
her baby (she said later months after the
fact it was his) and the pain that went
with this. But I was wrong and that was
only half the story.
Most people who know have taken it really
well, most of his close friends know, his
sister, his dad thinks he has an idea but
it's something you don't talk about, my
mom knows.
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