Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 6 Location: northeastern PA
Totally Confused Posted: 10-01-03 14:24pm
I was just wondering if it was possible to
become pregnant right before you have your
period, like concieve 3 days before its
suppose to come, cause ive taken tests and
one said invalid, that was the week before
I was suppose to have my period, and I
havent had it yet. I had unprotected sex
with my partner on the 31st of august, and
I was suppose to get my period around that
time. And now I havent gotten it.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-01-03 14:37pm
The sex could have thrown it off and you
just might be late. It wasnt when you
were ovulating and they say thats the only
time you can get pregnant. Take another
test if your still late. Good luck.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Possibly... Posted: 10-01-03 14:47pm
Nikki is right, it could have thrown it
off...Anything can. However you have to
wait until your late to have reliable
results or go get a blood test. Good
luck with everything.
Best wishes,
jennifer
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totallyconfused
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 6 Location: northeastern PA
Eeeeeeeeep Posted: 10-01-03 17:51pm
I was wondering,
because I did take another test and it
said I was pregnant, and I was soo hoping
I would be able to get pregnant around the
time I was suppose to have my period,
cause if it was before that,
then its not my boyfriends right now. It
would be my x finace's. He had me take a
test after we split up and it came out
negitive, or so I thought until his mom
contacted me a few days ago (cause for
some reason she kept it?) and told me the
line was in the wrong window and its
invalid. The reason I dont want it to be
his is because hes psycho. He'd take the
child no matter what away from me, he told
me so when I first had the test. And I
would never be rid of him. This makes me
really upset cause the child is going to
have a messed up life, going from house to
house with parents that have different
issues on life, not to mention all the
stress going to be going on between him
and i. Hes going to make my life a living
hell, along with his parents. Hell his
parents still make my life a living hell.
I really dont know what to do ive been soo
depressed about this lately, and I almost
took a bunch of birth control pills to
kill it to make everyones lives better.
But I cant do it. I really dont want it
to be his and im soo confused. If it is,
my bf now will definately leave me. I
just wish I never was stupid enough to get
myself involved in this situation to begin
with. But I do need help or comments, on
whats the best thing to do.
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totallyconfused
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 6 Location: northeastern PA
Continued Posted: 10-01-03 18:04pm
I also havent had n e symptoms of being
pregnant, other than wanting to puke when
I smoke, but I never do puke. Im just
hoping maybe theres something wrong with
me?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-01-03 18:12pm
Ok well stop smoking. Take another test
in the morning. You cant be stressing
like this. And if it is your
ex-fiance's...Dont tell him! Say its your
boyfriends and nothing will go wrong. If
you want him to know its his then you will
be visiting the courts alot for supervised
visits, child support and so on. Just
because his mom said its invalid you
belive her? Of course it will be like
that, I think on the box it says check
after what 3 minutes? Then after a time
longer than that, it *will be invalid*.
Because it sat there so long. You need to
take a test so you can find out. You
should really get on a b/c to prevent
future problems. If you had your period I
dont think you are. But get a test, then
if you want, get a blood test ok? Good
luck. You need to keep calm and dont
stress about this.
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-01-03 18:17pm
First things first, you need to go to the
doctor.....They will give you another
test....Then you need to decide what to
do....Stay relaxed...Everything will be
ok....
Passion....
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totallyconfused
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 6 Location: northeastern PA
Posted: 10-01-03 18:27pm
Its hard to stay relaxed, I still live
with my mother right now, and she hates
both of the ppl that could have possibly
fathered it, especially my boyfriend at
the moment. So he cant come over here at
all. I feel like im 12 or something, but
im 20. Shes not one of your normal
mothers either, she told both my brother
and I that she doesnt have many motherly
instincts in her, shes not the mothiering
type. Im afraid shes going to make me
move out before I get the chance to save
up enough money (which is what im doing
right now). I dunno, I just need human
comfort right now, and I cant get it from
the person that most matters in my life.
We both dont know what to do. He thinks
its his, and im hoping it is, but I dunno,
I really dont know where im going on with
this. I think im just venting, I have soo
much going on in my life, its soo
stressful, and its soo hard being pregnant
right now. Im hoping my stress isnt
hurting it. But I have no way to bring it
down.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-01-03 18:35pm
You need to take a test so you can be
relaxed. Contact a doctor and get a blood
test to know for sure. And the results,
if negative will calm your stress.
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Farah
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 10-03-03 23:19pm
Definately take another test first. If
you are pregnant, you will want your Dr.
To tell you how far along you are before
you start freaking out. Then you can
decide what to do. If it is your ex's,
you can tell him it's your current
boyfriends even if your boyfriend knows
it's not his.
Don't stress, it's bad for the baby!
Good luck
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Eloise
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 21 Location: Georgia
"i've Been There" Posted: 10-03-03 23:55pm
#1- please control your stress, b/c it's
not good for the baby, if u r pregnant.
#2- I know for sure that whatever u choose
to do will have a bearing on u later in
life. #3- think it out first, before u
make a move to do anything. #4- try to
find a counsler n your neighborhood. #5-
pray, pray, & pray to god, if u are
sincere to him, he'll be there for u. I
was in your situation (somewhat) I think I
made a lot of mistakes & if I could do
it all over again, everything would be so
different. I hope u make the right
decision for u, something that u can live
with. My husband's uncle is agravating
me, he just got of the hospital & had
no where to go. I'll have to cut it
short. Bye, bye
I was wondering,
because I did take another test and it
said I was pregnant, and I was soo hoping
I would be able to get pregnant around the
time I was suppose to have my period,
cause if it was before that, 
then its not my boyfriends right now. It
would be my x finace's. He had me take a
test after we split up and it came out
negitive, or so I thought until his mom
contacted me a few days ago (cause for
some reason she kept it?) and told me the
line was in the wrong window and its
invalid. The reason I dont want it to be
his is because hes psycho. He'd take the
child no matter what away from me, he told
me so when I first had the test. And I
would never be rid of him. This makes me
really upset cause the child is going to
have a messed up life, going from house to
house with parents that have different
issues on life, not to mention all the
stress going to be going on between him
and i. Hes going to make my life a living
hell, along with his parents. Hell his
parents still make my life a living hell.
I really dont know what to do ive been soo
depressed about this lately, and I almost
took a bunch of birth control pills to
kill it to make everyones lives better.
But I cant do it. I really dont want it
to be his and im soo confused. If it is,
my bf now will definately leave me. I
just wish I never was stupid enough to get
myself involved in this situation to begin
with. But I do need help or comments, on
whats the best thing to do. 
