My name is lili and im in the middle of
moving out of my home.Each day I try to
pack and each day I remember the hopes and
dreams I had moving in,pregnant of my
-now-2 year old daughter.
It is so hard.
Im moving to another part of the city,im
changing my job and I have a small
child...
I dont know how other people do it,how
they manage,but I feel uprooted,lost and
scared...
I liked beeing married,i liked the
financial security,i wanted another baby,i
wanted to be part of a family..My
family...
Anyway..Just wanted to share,unload,and
hear from others who have been through
this before me tell me-hopefully-its going
to be allright...?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-01-03 15:40pm
It will be ok, maybe its for the best. I
remember when my mom and dad split up, it
didnt really affect me she would always
say its for the best and things will be
tight but we have eachother. So you might
have problems or doubts getting through
this but remember you have your little
one. You can get through this!
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-01-03 19:26pm
Sweetie I know it most be hard for
you....I'm here pregnant and have a two
year old, my husband is over seas so he
isn't around and it is very hard on
us...Everything is going to be
okay....Stay strong for yourself and your
children.....
Passion
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jwig69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Michigan
Posted: 10-23-03 14:25pm
Lili,
i went through a divorce about 5 years ago
and my kids were 5 and 7 at the time, it
was an awful time I remember it well what
you are feeling, I had all of theses
unanswered questions that kept running
through my head that I never could answer.
But I got through it and I went back to
work and got my own place that was pretty
scary I had all these bills one income and
two kids not fun at all but I kept
plugging along and now I have a full time
job, I have a house and my kids are doing
great I am a much better person now than
ever before you will see it is going to be
ok and you will be fine I am sure of it.
If you can the best advice I can give you
is be strong surround yourself by family
and friends, you will on day have the
family you dreamt of I promise.
Take care of yourself and keep your head
up.
Julie
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merrymix
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2004 Posts: 13 Location: Louisville, KY
Hello Posted: 06-29-04 00:33am
I find it helps when I sigh and say to
myself: "and this too, shall pass."
