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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Girls~i'm So Upset.
Posted: 09-05-04 21:35pm
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Hey girls,
i really need you all right now. I've
been dealing with some friendship crap for
the past week. Remember lauren~the one
I was "kissing" (not really!) in the 4th
of july pic. Well, I just got this
e-mail from her:
ok...Look...
I know you think i've been acting
'funny' lately...But this is me...I don't
feel the connection we used to have
anymore...And no its not bc of kim and no
it's not because of josh...Bc that's the
two reasons I know you are probably
thinking it is...I just don't feel the
same way that I used to about you...I mean
yea I love you to death but I just dont
feel that I can be as close to you as I
used to be....There are many reasons for
that...But you asked me to give you a
reason for the way that I have been
acting...And this is it....So please stop
blowing my phone up...And stop poppin up
at my house....But I do want to thank you
for everything that you've done for
me...And thank you for being there for me
over these last few months.....
Sincerely,
lauren jo
so, I called her after I read this. And
I was like. what! Well, she didn't
say much. Just said that she "needs
time" and "doesn't know" and "it's not me
it's her". Like a doing it
relationship! Man.... I don't
understand what I did wrong. I kept
asking her while we were on the phone and
she really kept telling me that I didn't
do anything and it was all her and I was
bawling my eyes out  . I
hate to fight with friends and I .....
Man. This caca is hard.........
Anyway, I just needed to get this out.
Love ya,
chanda
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 09-05-04 21:55pm
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Chanda you can blow my phone up!!
If she doesn't want to be friends with
you, she doesn't know what she's missing,
and she isn't worth your time! I can't
stay on long, but I want you to know that
you are worth more than that kind of
friendship!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 09-05-04 21:57pm
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Hey hun! I talked to you on aol about
this. And seriously if you want my number
ill give it to you. Acutally im goign to
pm it to ya! You deserve better! Youre
such a great girl!!
<3
gaby
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 09-05-04 22:04pm
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Awww hunny! Im gonna be on yahoo in a bit
so if ur on, ill talk to u there. She
sounds like she doesnt know how to
appreciate true friendship. All us girls
on here know how u have helped us out of
very tough situations, u give us honest
opinions to help us out (no matter how
harsh they seem to be, u speak the truth
which is what we need to hear) and girl,
ur a very good friend and she just doesnt
know how to appreciate that. She says she
thanks u for all those times uve been
there for her, well what about when shes
gonna need u down the road and u wont be
there becuz she turned away ur friendhsip.
Shes stupid and im sorry u have to go
thru such an ordeal. I know what its like
to lose a good friend and it hurts like
hell... But ur a strong girl chanda and u
have us and ur other true friends...
Chanda, we love u so much and we(caps)
really appreciate everything uve done for
us and we'll never reject u.
Shauna
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JeSsYmOm22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2004
Posts: 5
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 09-05-04 22:24pm
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Im in a similar situation as you. My
bestfriend and I have been friends for 5
years and all of a sudden she started
hangin out with my boyfriend sister which
is a total *****. Anyway..She started
hangin with her or whatever and she
started smokin, flashing 30yr old men,
drinkin, and goin behind my back in sh*t.
So basically and obviously we arent
friends anymore because of my boyfriends
stupid sister!!! She hates me and I hate
her. I hate her because she stole my
boyfriends best friend which is her
boyfriend now (really isnt a relationship
just sex) and she stole my bestfriend and
turned her into a horrible
person..So..Therefore I cant stand neither
one of them now.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-05-04 23:31pm
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Well shes dumb if she dont want a friend
like you!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 09-06-04 00:18am
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Thanks girls. It really means a lot to
me. Ya know, it's so funny. I have
better "friends" on the internet.... That
i've never met. Then I have in real
life.
I love you all!
Love,
chanda
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 09-06-04 11:14am
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Aww chanda! I'm so sorry! You dont
deserve that. But hey, maybe its just
pms and she'll get over it in a week 
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 09-06-04 17:02pm
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Oooo chanda I know the feeling-i hate when
you don't know what you've done wrong.Some
people arent worth being friends with
though.I fell out with my friend last
week-she was so horrible to me & she
said she "couldn't stand me" & that I
was a bi*ch thing is i'd be there for her
through everything but she only came
running to me when she fell out with her
boyfriend & wanted some 'advice'. Im
so through with her because friends
shouldnt make you feel like that-why
should we have to feel bad & blame
ourselves when we havent done anything
wrong? I do hope you two sort things out
because its clear she means a lot to you
& its not nice to loose a good
friend.Keep us updated-we're hear to let
you vent!
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 09-06-04 18:49pm
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Chanda she sounds like a total problem,
dont waste your tears on her.... What
comes around goes around and she will end
up with no one but herself.
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 09-06-04 22:03pm
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Chanda-
lauren needs to grow up...You will
be fine. medical question her you got us!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 09-06-04 23:59pm
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I am so sorry I wasn't on earlier! But, I
pm'ed you!
You are better off without her! And when
she comes crawling back, tell her to f-ck
off!
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groomer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2004
Posts: 118
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Posted: 09-07-04 00:10am
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That sounds so familiar, that's exactly
what my boyfriend is doing to me right
now!  i'm sorry she's
being like that, she obviously doesn't
realize that you are a great person. If
you ever need someone to talk to, you can
e-mail me at lhs_cheerchick_2004@hotmail.Com.
Love ya girl, hang in there!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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