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studentonly

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Pregnant Happened?
Posted: 09-05-04 23:16pm

I am 24 years old, and I have sex with my gf during her 13th and 14th days after periods, but I confirmed that I didnt shoot inside the sperms, I make it outside after a few minutes I take out from her body. I didnt wear condom, is that possible for her to get pregnant?

For your info, we have sex in the past 2-3 months, and some we make it at the 13 to 15th also, but she didnt get pregnant for that...

Both of us is very confuse and worry about that. Confused Crying
or Very sad
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pitterpatter

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Posted: 09-06-04 00:28am

Duh! Of course she can still get pregnant. There's a thing called pre ejaculation and in some cases that's more potent than the other stuff. If you don't want to get pregnant than wear a condom.
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studentonly

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Posted: 09-06-04 00:31am

Ok, let say if we want to do a pregant test, then her period should be around 13 september (last period is 13august), when we can do it?

She got 2 days headaches in the past 2 days, and sleep a lot (she likes to sleep).
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silverlou

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Posted: 09-06-04 09:45am

Wait until she's a day or 2 late, that way it'll be more accurate either positive or negative.

If you test too early, before she's late, you can get a false negative, you might believe she's not pregnant when really she is, she just didn't have enough hormones yet to show up on the tes.
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studentonly

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Posted: 09-08-04 21:25pm

Haiz.. Damn, my gf said that she feel that her breast is getting bigger a little bit than last time. I think she is pregnant.

We may gonna to have an abortion, because I think we are not able to grow up our child later.

Now both of us are still in university.
Sad
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silverlou

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Posted: 09-09-04 08:13am

Stop having unprotected sexual contact. How you two can be in university and not realize you can get pregnant with the withdrawal method is beyond me.

If you don't want to have kids you should both be on top of this stuff! Get to a clinic now and find out what your options are. And abortion is not the ony option. And smarten up! By her waiting it out it isn't going to make it go away. Have neither of you heard of the morning after pill? I'm pretty sure you're too late now but again I am telling you to get yourselves to a doctor and find out what is going on.
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hm_03

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Posted: 09-09-04 13:12pm

Silverlou well said. I do agree with you because if they are not ready to have sex then why have unprotected sex. There are so many other options as well but people wait until it's too late.

If she is pregnant and ya'll consider abortion I know it's your choice but there is other options.

Good luck
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studentonly

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Posted: 09-10-04 05:59am

She just phoned me that she got a bit of blood... Seems period is coming

but as I know if got pregnant the period (blood) a bit still coming is it??
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silverlou

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Posted: 09-10-04 07:51am

Yes there is a possibility that what she is experiencing is implantation bleeding, it does happen to some women.
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PregnaJordan

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Posted: 09-10-04 08:48am

Whoah, ur in university and u cant even make a proper sentence? Wow... Yeah, u definetly need to read up on pregnancy buddy!
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insurancegirl

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Posted: 09-10-04 10:32am

Good luck... Rolling Eyes

~jennifer~
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Kia

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Posted: 09-10-04 14:44pm

I don't think he is american/english
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studentonly

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Posted: 09-11-04 21:44pm

Hm..Her period is normal right now..
Thanks god man..
:d :d :d :d Surprised Surprised Surprised Surprised

if like that, is it still dangerous?
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silverlou

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Posted: 09-11-04 21:49pm

What do you mean "is it still dangerous"? I don't understand.

What I do know is that you two need to be using birth control. Stop having sex if you're not going to use birth control because one of these times your girlfriend is going to end up pregnant.
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Kia

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Posted: 09-12-04 05:50am

Yes there is still a danger that she could get pregnant.
There is always a danger she could get pregnant if you don't wear a condom, she should get some birth control from her doctor.
No birthcontrol or condom (preferably both) then .N.O .S.E.X Rolling Eyes
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studentonly

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Posted: 09-12-04 20:37pm

The meaning of birth control is it having sex on 1-10 days and 20-28 days?

I mean out of the range is it?
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silverlou

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Posted: 09-13-04 02:17am

No, no, no, no, no

that is not the meaning of birth control.

The meaning of birth control is using a condom, a diaphragm, going on the birth control pill, using an iud

your girlfriend can ovulate at any time during her cycle, that means there are no safe days, I repeat no safe days.

You can't just say we'll have sex only on days 1-10. I usually ovulate on day 12 or 13 and two months ago it was day nine...You never know. If I was using your method to not get pregnant, I would probably be pregnant.

This is a silly way of thinking you are practicing birth control and your girlfriend will most likely end up pregnant.
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Kia

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Posted: 09-13-04 04:47am

Please stop having unprotected sex, this is crazy, you are an adult (well at uni so...) take responsibility.
The best is to use condoms as these protect against infections as well.
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