Welcome to the lupus board. I am not
speaking for everyone, but it seems to me
that we accept all kinds of thoughts and
comments (except the solicited kind from
bogus "cure-alls") from users. Nothing
is a bad subject.
You may want to see if your local area has
a lupus support group that you can both
attend, if she is able to move about.
Most support groups accept patients and
loved ones as well as friends, doctors,
etc.
We all have open ears. Many of us have
husbands who are living second-hand to
what we are experiencing, mine included.
It takes time for some to realize and
understand the depth of the situation but
once it does sink in it's like an
epiphany.
You should check out
www.Lupus.Org and see
if there is a lupus support group/chapter
near you.
Clarebear