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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 09-08-04 13:24pm
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She would have mentioned something if she
was suddenly bumped up 7 weeks... Im
pretty sure she would say something to us
and not just figrue we "knew".
Also, michelle, u havent been here as long
as us and we've run into a few people that
ahve said the exact same thing and people
we were close to and to find out they were
lying... So its a little hard for us to
believe this also when its happened so
many times and things just arent falling
into place.
I happen to agree wit nikki and jordan on
this and I believe its not real, if I am
wrong I will feel so bad for how I reacted
to this girl but if not.. Then
whatever..
Shauna
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 09-08-04 13:29pm
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She did mention something. She made a
whole post about it the same day as the
appointment when she got told. There is a
link to that post in the first post on
this thread.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 6623 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 09-08-04 14:35pm
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She wasn't fake. And she didn't miscarry.
She gave birth. The baby lived for....
I don't remember how long. The baby was
like 2 pounds or something and then the
baby passed away........... Very sad

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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:07pm
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How do you know all of this chanda?? Why
doesn't maddison come in here herself and
explain it all?? We probably would want
support anyways. I think if she was a
fake we would have already been here and
making a huge drama scene out of the whole
thing ya know? My 6th grade teacher gave
birth to her child and it was still born.
I don't know what I would have done if my
baby was like that. At least she got to
see it. Im not sure what is worse though.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:08pm
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I was always so scared of having a
stillborn... Now im just scared of
sids... But those are scary things that
people think of.. God I dont know what id
do if that happened to me.
Shauna
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:09pm
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| linuxchique
wrote: | | damn
kia!! |

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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:10pm
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Okay, I only read part of the first page
of this thread. But I would like to say,
that tons of miscarriages are in the third
trimester, eventhough chanda has already
stated that this was not a miscarriage.
I would also like to say, that she may
have gotten her first ultrasound at 20
something weeks, and then the doc bumed
her up to 30 something weeks. We docs,
measure the baby manually, they are often
times wrong. And that is b/c there are
varoius ways to measure, and none of them
can be 100 % accurate, it is really just a
guess, sometimes right and sometimes
wrong.
Now please, I am kind of tired of this.
Can someone please delete this thread and
any other thread that may pop up about
maddison beaing a fake. B/c what if she
is not, and comes on here for support,
then she see's sh*t like this. This is
the last thing a person needs after losing
a child. And this is kind of the reason,
I only check on the board maybe once a day
now. That combined, with people who act
like idiots and are blind to it, is
beginning to were down.
I may be back in a couple of days or maybe
not. I know one, thing if I lose my
child, this forum is one place I won't be
coming for support.
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:14pm
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I can see your point newlife, but I guess
a lot of these girls have been here long
enough...Where they have seen one fake
after another and after pouring there
heart out to these :fake girls: they
literally screw themselves over by
believing all of there drama caca. On the
other hand, im dont want to accuse anyone
of being a faker I am hear for support
either way. I see both views on it...
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 6623 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:17pm
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| pregnajordan
wrote: | no me and nikki discussed
this right when she became part of the
forum. We both knew then...U cant
"miscarry" at 36 weeks, u have to go into
labor or something, right?
O well, not my deal, but im like 101%
sure she is |
she didn't miscarry. She gave birth....
The baby didn't survive.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:36pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | linuxchique
wrote: | | damn
kia!! |
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oh no honey I wasn't getting mad at you!
I was mad at myself! Lol!
The baby was 5 pounds and had heart and
breathing problems and couldn't have
lived. She didn't come on here and say
it herself because of all she's dealing
with. Plus, her feelings were really
hurt that you guys thought she was fake.
She says she's never coming back.
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 09-08-04 15:58pm
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I never claimed that she was fake. She
should come back for the people that will
support her.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 09-08-04 16:16pm
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I didn't mean to say you thought she was
fake, there was just talk about it, and
she was hurt by it. She won't come back
because she doesn't think you will support
her. I can't blame her.
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:02pm
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I don't blame her either. If you all
thought she was fake why did you have to
bring it up now...After her baby is dead!
Why not before?? Why not make all the
accusations before all of this happened,
why did people wait so damn long?
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:08pm
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Because many of the other fake people got
out of showing pics and proving it by
saying they'd had a miscarriage. So when
that happened to maddison they jumped.
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:09pm
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| babyrae
wrote: |
also, michelle, u havent been here as long
as us and we've run into a few people that
ahve said the exact same thing and people
we were close to and to find out they were
lying... So its a little hard for us to
believe this also when its happened so
many times and things just arent falling
into place. |
so that gives you guys the right to accuse
anyone?! I mean no offense, but if you
had lost your baby and then came here for
comfort and everyone threw it in your face
would that not hurt you like crazy?
Just because some people have lied to you
guys dosent mean everyone who comes here
is. Just because you dont think her
story is realistic dosent mean its not
real. And her story does in fact make
sense.
I dont give a caca if I havent been around
to see this caca happen, I know it does
and it happens everyday but I dont go
around accusing you guys of being fakes.
Thats just plain rude. This girl lost
her child and all you can do is say that
shes faking? How freaking awful is
that? Shes going through something
where all she needs is comfort right now,
she lost her baby for heavens sake! The
least we can do is support her and try and
be there for her through all of this.
Im not trying to start anything, but that
really angers me off that people are gonna
accuse someone of being a fake. Those
of you that are hae no real proof and
until you do I suggest apologizing for
making accusations. Because theres a
girl out there with her heart torn out and
all this forum has done is make it
worse.
(this wasnt directed towards you
specifically shauna...Just in general)
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:16pm
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Hm... I dunno what to belive but if this
really did happened I am sorry for
everything that has happened to you...

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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:16pm
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Im pretty sure she did post pics, to
anyone who thought she was lying to get
out of posting any..
You know if I had lost my baby that way I
dont think I would even make it out of my
bed, nevermind make it on here. So I dont
think thats a reason to claim she is a
faker either.
But I have read so many of the fakers
posts before it's hard not to think
otherwise. Nobody likes to belive these
things happen. It's just horrible.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 09-08-04 17:26pm
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Ya lost for words shauna lol
how ya doin huni havent sent u a message
in ages
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