Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Posts: 738 Location: clinton twp, MI
Super Stressed! Posted: 09-08-04 07:56am
Well I think most of you know how I live
with eric and his mom and how she is an
alcoholic and how deppressed how I have
been here. I grew up with both my parents
being addicts and can not deal with it
again especially having dominic around.
And his mom is a bad one too. U sometimes
get happy drunks but shes a meanie all she
does is want to fight . Anyway to get to
my point my sister put an apartment in her
name for us cuz we dont show we make
enough money ect ect and it is by my
family. So we'll be like 45 min away from
his ma wooohhoooooooooooo rofl. But man I
am really stressin about this. We have
most of what we need and I have a job
interview out there today @ 1pm and I need
this job or else were screwed but I get no
help from eric.I broke down last night and
told him I feel like the man in the
relationship and that I feel I have 2 kids
not one. All eric has to worry about is
this game he plays online. Hes been
playin it 4 like a year n a half and I
know he is hooked. Now he does help with
the baby in all areas w/o me askin but
like I worry about bills, the car, food,
doc appointments, prescriptions ect ect.
We have had the same phone number since
feb and he dont even know it!!!! Anyway
the stress is starting to affect my
physically im gettin sick to my stomach
and shaky im always on edge and mad. I
dont know what to do. I havent worked and
thought my boss was gonna let me come back
2 weeks early for the rest of september to
save some money and now she says she
doesnt need me, I dont even have money to
buy dominic wipes or me pads!!! what am I
gonna do? Anyhow sorry if this is
confusing in anyway I just have noone to
talk to and I really needed to get this
out. I am so happy to get away from his
mom I could cry but I can already see it.
Eric stayin home with dom while I go out
and bust my tail at work, cook dinner,
care for dom and everything else.
Grrrrrrrr!!! Someone reply with some
encouragement please lol. Im on the verge
of a nervous breakdown. ~ erica.
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 09-08-04 08:02am
Erica..Get on yahoo!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 09-08-04 08:25am
Sorry you are stressed...That is a lot to
take on and deal with.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 09-08-04 11:22am
Sounds like how my parents were and sorry
to say but it usually does not get
better.... Can you find a way out or make
him open up his eyes to reality? Toss the
game without his concent.. Hah eye
opener!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-08-04 11:55am
Hey erica. I think its really good that
you are getting out of the alcoholic
environment. But maybe you should talk to
eric about helping out alot more. My
friend was having the same problem and she
wrote him a letter to help out more. And
he actually listened finally. Maybe you
should give him a limit to play the games.
When we got the net and he found the
games he was playing for a long time, but
then I got mad and gave him a time limit.
So he gets on like 1 day for 2 hours, but
not the next day. He alternates so he can
spend time with me. Not that the baby is
here yet so I dont need help there. But I
think talking to him about all this stress
is better for you. You shouldnt be so
stressed like this. Its not good for you.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
