Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
Not Having a Good Week... Posted: 10-02-03 13:17pm
Hey yall...These past two weeks have not
been good at all. I am not the type of
person to cry, but it seems like that is
all I have been doing!! My boyfriend
thinks i'm depressed!! All I do is sleep.
I dont have a job, all I do is go to
school and it seems like I ran a
marathon!! Whenever he tells me somthing
that usually wouldnt bother me, I start
crying. My period has not come yet..
..As most of you
know my last period was from august 2nd to
the 6th. We had unprotected sex i'm
guessing between the 15th and the 20th (of
august) unprotected. Although he did not
come in me, I didn't get my period. He
is convinced that I am pregnant. I have
taken home pregnancy test in the evening
and one in the morning. They all came up
negative. I'm, so far, getting all of
the symptoms of pregnancy.(except morning
sickness). I know this is horrible, and
I never mentioned it; but for the last two
weeks he has been coming inside of me.
He has 4 times, maybe 5. . I
have (in caps) never, ever missed my
period. It just doesnt add up right.
When me and my boyfriend used condoms, my
period was right on schedule. But when
we don't use them twice, it doesnt come.
I never thought I could be that fertile!!
I dont know what to do! I want to have
this baby (if I am pregnant), but then I
dont. He doesnt like me to think like
that, but he has to understand; i'm only
17 and a senior in high school. We're
not ready, financially, for a child. Is
it possible that my hcg levels are not
strong enough for a home pregnancy test to
detect?? I havent told him that I took
any pregnancy tests, because he would be
soo upset. I told him that I wanted to
wait until the middle of this month to go
get tested. Just to make sure I dont get
my period for oct. Either. What should
I do?? What do you think?!
Sarah
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-02-03 13:35pm
Well if hes been coming inside you why do
you allow it? You know that leads right
to pregnancy. Why even wonder why its
late!! I suggest you go get a blood test.
You cant sit and wonder when you know hes
been coming in you. I suggest you go to
the doctor as soon as you can.
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
I Know, Im Stupid Posted: 10-02-03 14:01pm
I know nikki. But he didn't start coming
in me until 2 weeks after I missed my
period, maybe even 3. That's still no
excuse. Im just wondering why I am always
crying. I am usually a happy person who
jokes around and who likes to cuddle with
my boyfriend. But for the past two weeks,
all I do is pick fights then cry. I have
cried at least 1 time every night in front
of him. He doesnt like that at all b/c he
feel that hes hurting me. But he actually
has nothing to do with it. Just for some
reason, I get the urge to cry. I dont
know what to do! I dont have anyone
physically that I can talk to about all of
this. I know that I can talk to all of
yall, but I also cant see your facial
expressions when you read my post!! I
would talk to my boyfriend, but he doesnt
understand. so
far today I havent gone to sleep, as I
usually do. But thats about to change..I
cant fight the sleep urge any longer. But
I know if I go to sleep, when my boyfriend
walks in, hes going to be upset with me!
I know that me letting him come in me is
stupid, but the reality of me maybe being
pregnant hasnt sunken in yet. Maybe when
I get a positive pregnancy test, ill
realize...Oh caca..I madee a huuuugggeee
woopsie.
Sarah
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Posted: 10-02-03 14:13pm
Sweetheart if you were letting him come
inside of you, why are you even wondering?
Go get a blood test done, and if you know
you dont want a baby yet then don't let
him come in you again. Lots of luck
~melissa
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-02-03 14:31pm
Your not stupid but you really need to
start using your nogin a little bit more.
If you werent pregnant before you probably
are now. You really need to get a blood
test done. Stop stressing and everything
and get it over with. Why are you holding
off on it for? This should be the first
thing on your list, not having more
unprotected sex with him coming in you.
You are probably sad and everything
because your hormones are going crazy. So
you feel all sad and emotional. You need
to face reality and realize you might be
carrying a baby, stop guessing and
thinking and putting it off. Just make an
appointment. Pregnancy tests can always
show neg until like 3 months of pregnancy
or more. Which is why you *need a blood
test* so then you can realize what kind of
whoopsie you made. Give me the number ill
make the appointment for you!
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ccn330
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2003 Posts: 7 Location: IL
Well. . . Posted: 10-02-03 14:36pm
Honey, to begin with, I will not lecture
you.
I know that at the time it feels really
good and you dont want to use a
condom...And putting one on ruins the
moment. But that little piece of latex is
a real stress saver when you think about
it. I suggest you get a blood test. And
to keep this from happening again, use a
condom. If your boyfriend and you don't
like condoms, use spermicide, or vaginal
condoms, or a diaphraghm...Or get on the
pill or on the patch! They also have male
birth control! Check out your options,
and best of luck with everything!!!
Ccn330 (christa)
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..As most of you
know my last period was from august 2nd to
the 6th. We had unprotected sex i'm
guessing between the 15th and the 20th (of
august) unprotected. Although he did not
come in me, I didn't get my period. He
is convinced that I am pregnant. I have
taken home pregnancy test in the evening
and one in the morning. They all came up
negative. I'm, so far, getting all of
the symptoms of pregnancy.(except morning
sickness). I know this is horrible, and
I never mentioned it; but for the last two
weeks he has been coming inside of me.
He has 4 times, maybe 5. 
. I
have (in caps) never, ever missed my
period. It just doesnt add up right.
When me and my boyfriend used condoms, my
period was right on schedule. But when
we don't use them twice, it doesnt come.
I never thought I could be that fertile!!
I dont know what to do! I want to have
this baby (if I am pregnant), but then I
dont. He doesnt like me to think like
that, but he has to understand; i'm only
17 and a senior in high school. We're
not ready, financially, for a child. Is
it possible that my hcg levels are not
strong enough for a home pregnancy test to
detect?? I havent told him that I took
any pregnancy tests, because he would be
soo upset. I told him that I wanted to
wait until the middle of this month to go
get tested. Just to make sure I dont get
my period for oct. Either. What should
I do?? What do you think?!
