Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Im a Little Confused Posted: 10-02-03 14:48pm
Hey everyone,
ok im confused on whats going on with my
dad. His sister lydia called my mom last
night and said that one of his nephews had
seen him a while ago in august and that my
dad was going to cross his girlfriend
(illegal) through the dessert. And that
was it. But see the thing is, my dad is
too smart for that. He knows people dont
make it across the desert walking, in the
heat. They die. My dad is like smart,
strong, always on a mission and he cared
more about us than anything. He wouldnt
do that for some lady we dont like. So my
mom was so worried she took off this
morning to go to mexico to find him with
his other sister (he is one of 19!) and
she went and this is all dhe found out so
far in yuma az. He got a .D.U.I and got
arrested, then he was given a court date.
He never showed for it so now he has a
warrant for his arrest. He is also wanted
for a questioning on a mans death. Not
that he did it but he might have alot of
info on it or something. She also visited
the mortuaries and only 2 bodies with no
names, a big guy and a white guy. Neither
is my dad. So now she is on her way to
mexico.
Im worried so much. I dont know what my
dad is getting himself into. I have a
huge headache and I dont feel good. Im
here at work and all this about my dad is
confusing me, worrying me and making me
sad.
I keep praying for him, but thats all I
can do. Im sorry this doesnt have much to
do with pregnancy but its my update and I
had to vent.
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 10-02-03 15:28pm
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Confused1605
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 38 Location: Illinois
Im Sorry Posted: 10-02-03 15:34pm
Nikki ,
hey girl! Im sure you dad will be
okay....Im not a very spiritual person but
I do know that whatever happens is gods
plan theres nothing you can really do and
worrying makes your headache worse believe
me I know! I have feeling he is doing
okay and you will get him back soon! You
will be in my prayers...Keep me updated!
Always,
jeni
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-02-03 16:34pm
Thanks guys! Thats what jose said too,
hopefully hes not hurt. But the thing
that confuses us was hes in love with
hope, his grandaughter its his second and
he was so proud of her that we know he
wouldnt go this long without seeing her or
calling. Cuz shes going to be one soon.
My moms in mexico right now so she said
shes call as soon as she gets back with
some more news hopefully. I hope hes not
dead.
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 10-03-03 07:28am
It'll be ok, god will lead him and your
family through this - and I know some
people hate it when religion is brought
into these but too bad. Best of luck and
im sure everything will be ok in the end.
The way you described him he doesn't sound
like someone to do anything horrible or
stupid. ~melissa
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-03-03 10:52am
Well from what my mom told me this
morning, its not too good. But thanks!
Im praying too! Thanks mommy 2 be. My
mom said we need to scratch him out of our
lives for now until maybe one day he shows
up.
What hurts is that everyone my mom talked
to told her that all he talked about was
coming to see his daughters and
grandaughters, that he was so excited to
come see us...
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-03-03 11:12am
Hey guys, im not gonna be in here alot
today. Im not feeling good. I think im
getting sick and my dad is gone and last
night my lip swelled up, my top lip only
so it looked all ugly and it kinda went
down but its still big and my mom said it
happens when im worried or nervous and its
true but I hate it. Im real tired and my
week hasnt been the best. I think the
only thing was hope got a tricycle
(spell?) for her bithday and she loves it
and my coworker got me a gift too. And a
cake for later. But im still down. My
throat hurts. But congrats to everyone!
Jess and heather and all the other girls.
Lee dont give up! Dont stress ok! Your
time is coming. Bye!!!!
