Anyone Have Any Suggestions? Please Help!! Erectial Dysfunct Posted: 09-16-04 21:01pm
This is the sencone time I have posted
something inhopes ill get some sort of
response. Point blank. My bf cant keep
his penis hard when we are about to have
sex, but its hard all the time other wise,
the mall, movies, blockbuster ect.... Can
he have ed atthe age of 21? He thinks its
psychologiacal bc hes a virgin and is
nervous and thinks to much about it when
its about to happen? Any suggestions on
how to "spring it on him" or get himto
relax? And mybe he needs viagra, but at
such a young age? Any suggestions or
comments? Anything will help at this
point! We are going insaine!! Thanks
alot!!!
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john768
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2004 Posts: 11 Location: chicago
Posted: 10-01-04 16:54pm
No he doesnt need viagra...Since he is a
virgin, its the anxiety of him being in
that situation which is causing the
dysfunction...Jut slow it down...If your
serious with him then you have all the
time in the world...Otherwise if your
hormones are too impatient than find
someone suitable to fulfill your needs....
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bully
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 8
Posted: 10-21-04 09:32am
It is anxiety, maybe he needs to engage in
foreplay and then just proceede but just
let him think you will just fool around.If
he has spontaneous erections the he
doesn't need any help.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-04-04 15:21pm
You don't need to answer this in case it
incriminates, but drugs can cause, and
alcohol. So if you're trying to have sex
when he's high or drunk, this could be a
lot of the problem. Maybe he is on some
kind of meds that can cause this too.
That is also very poss.
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Sweety1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Posts: 34 Location: Canada
Posted: 11-05-04 20:02pm
Maybe try talking to him about what he's
thinking at the time you are about to have
intercourse and he goes soft. There can
be many things that he may be thinking at
the time to make him lose his erection.
Worrying about losing the erection or
getting you pregnant are a couple of
things that may cause him to get soft.
I've had to deal with this sort of thing
as well.
If he's hard all the time other than that,
he certainly does not need viagra.
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doola
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 22 Location: south carolina
Posted: 11-07-04 15:27pm
Maybe try a little oral sex on him since
you are probaly the more experience one.
That are to get the blood flowing.
