I know how you all feel about the dads
doing that, my son is going to be 6 in
dec and his dad has not seen him since he
was 2 months old and that was in a court
room for child support
which I have never seen to this day.
but it
get harder when you kids start talking
about thre fathers like they know them and
see them all the time, thats when it
really hurts, because you just dont know
what to say.
That is sad. Because fathers should know
that their child is growing up and they do
need a male role model in their life.
I should know because I grew up with out
a dad, and even though i'm a girl I really
did not need him too much but my brother
did but my mom never did a bad job she was
good and we knew the situation.
Your son has you there and no matter what
he knows that you never abandon him and
some day maybe the fater would want to be
part of their life but it could be too
late because the child feels a burden
inside.
I think for all the single moms that are
supporting their child with out the father
are just as strong and should be admired
no matter what because they are taking the
responsible role and your kids will see
that. You just always have to be there
for them. They may not have daddy but you
could be mommy and daddy to your child.
That's how my mom is with me.
I'm glad that my boyfriend is still with
me and he has not abandon us nor his
respondsibilty but I can't never say he
would leave but as of now he still very
supportive and i'm so thankful for that.
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sdwood2
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2004 Posts: 645 Location: KY
Posted: 09-20-04 09:43am
Thanks, yea I did not have a dad when I
grew up eather but I turned out fine, my
son knows I love him and I just try to do
things with him that a father would do
like sports and stuff. Lol I am not
good at sports.
At least you try though and I know your
kids appreciate the effort. You always
have to be strong for your kids and the
kids father is missing out on special
things and he will regret it.
Guys are so selfish sometimes and only
think about having fun but sooner or later
they will realize what they missed out.
for child support
which I have never seen to this day.
but it
get harder when you kids start talking
about thre fathers like they know them and
see them all the time, thats when it
really hurts, because you just dont know
what to say. 
