I like a man who is 53 years old. I
really, really like him and he makes me
feel wonderful. I am 33 years old,
pretty and with a nice body. We have
worked together for several years and I
have always like him even though he is
married and known he likes me as well, but
nothing ever happened until recently when
we got too close by accident and ever
since them have not been able to keep our
hands from each other. He kisses me very
passionately, touches me all over, kisses
by breast, my waist, my hips, makes me
feel in heaven, but looks a bit tense when
I try to touch him, so I try to keep mi
hands away from his penis, but the few
times a have touch around the area of his
penis I have notice that there is no
erection y also notice he tries to avoid
me when there is plenty time ahead of us,
and only approaches me, when we are in a
rush. I know he likes me a lot and
desires me as much as I desire him.
I few days ago I sat at her computer and
checked the internet explorer history and
realize he has been visiting sites to buy
viagra, cialis and other sort of ed drugs.
By know I am certain that he has some
sort of erectile disorder, and that does
not mean I like him any less, but I am
confused! How can I give pleasure to an
impotent man? How are men with this
problem able to have an orgasm? I am not
so worry about me since there are other
things besides penetration that he can do
to give me pleasure, but how can I give
pleasure to him, when he cannot get an
erection. I don’t want to make him feel
bad, about his problem especially because
he is not mentioning it to me and I don’t
know what to do. Should I just stop
this, before I get more involved with him?
I am very confused but still like him a
lot. Please give me some advice.
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TBECK12
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2003 Posts: 62 Location: MICHIGAN
Posted: 09-21-04 14:28pm
The man is married!!!! Here is my
advise...Find someone who isn't. I can't
stand women like you!!!
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MarthaBarahona
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2004 Posts: 4 Location: New Jersey
Explanation Posted: 09-22-04 07:26am
He was married, reason why I waited so
long. His wife died about a year ago.
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TBECK12
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2003 Posts: 62 Location: MICHIGAN
Posted: 09-22-04 07:44am
I appologize. I am very sorry I thought
you stated above that he is currently
married.
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oopoopoop
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Joined: 18 Mar 2004 Posts: 1367 Location: ,
Thanks: 58
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Posted: 09-24-04 10:07am
Do you know if he is on any blood pressure
medication, or is diabetic?
There is a lot of misunderstanding about
viagra. Although it may help men who are
not technically impotent, when it is used
"recreationally", its medical use is for
men who really couldn't get erectinos
otherwise. So the fact that he is looking
for viagra is probably a good thing. It
has helped a lot of couples have regular
sex lives again. So yes, he may be
impotent, but that is exactly what the
viagra would cure, and the fact that he is
looking for it means that he is interested
in having sex. Possibly before his wife
died he they weren't being intimate any
more, but perhaps he is now thinking that
a new relationship would make it
worthwhile.
Good luck.
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MarthaBarahona
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2004 Posts: 4 Location: New Jersey
He Is Healty Man Posted: 09-24-04 11:35am
Poopoopoo:
as far as I know, he is not in any
medication. I have worked with him for
over 8 years and he has never been sick,
he looks healthy, but smokes a lot
sometimes. And yes since his wife had
cancer I figure sex wasn't important
during the last couple of year.
My main question is this:
if this viagra or whatever he is trying to
get does not work . How does a man
like that gets pleasure ??
I know he desires me and likes to caress
and kiss me and liked I mentioned before,
when we are together I feel in heaven :d ,
but I am concern about how is this going
to work out if the medicine is not
succesful??
i really need and advised, especially if
someone has had a similar experience.
Please help! I am very confused, but still likes him
a lot.
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Kelli_
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 46 Location: America
Posted: 09-25-04 18:55pm
I know how you feel. I too was somewhat
sexually confused until a man of 53 years
got his hands on me.
He loved to run his hands all over my
body, even if he could not get it up.
Sometimes he could and sometimes he
couldn't.
However, his inability to get it up did
not diminish his satifaction in being able
to get my gun off. If you know what I
mean. I used to say my man could lose
his dick and still be a great lover...
There are other ways...
when the opportunity presents itself get
together with him. He'll take the lead,
and if you have any doubts ask him what he
wants you to do. If one thing doesn't
work something else might... Chances are
he's going to need to see a doctor.
My guess is you shake him up and make him
feel alive again. You two sound cute.
And don't let age get in your way. Older
guys are waaaay better and i've dated all
(legal) ages. I'm sticking with the
older ones these days.
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MarthaBarahona
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2004 Posts: 4 Location: New Jersey
Thanks Kelly Posted: 09-27-04 09:16am
Thanks kelly!
You make me feel somehow better :d , you
seem to understand exactly what I mean.
I also think that there are other ways,
but this will be my first time with a man
that cannot get an erection and I am kind
of confuse.
Thanks a lot for sharing your
experience.
Pd: did you partner ever used viagra or
some kind of drug to help him have an
erection?
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Kelli_
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 46 Location: America
Martha Posted: 09-27-04 11:54am
No he never used viagra but there were
times when I wished he had, just to
lengthen the love making.
I also had an older boyfriend of more
recent date who was about 30 years my
senior. He never got real hard but he
said the oral sex still felt great to him!
And oh gosh, he was always so damn
grateful for my attention towards him.
You know if theyounger men were half as
grateful they'd probably never go one
night without sex.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 09-27-04 16:31pm
In my experience it isn't age. It is
respect, experience, knowledge and whether
or not the guy gives a hoot or not.
Age has nothing to do with it.
There are young guys and old guys who know
exactly what they are doing and know
exactly how to please their woman. There
are also young and old guys who could care
less as long as they get off. Age has
nothing to do with it.
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Kelli_
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 46 Location: America
Posted: 09-27-04 17:05pm
hotasfrick
wrote:
1.in my experience it isn't
age.
perhaps we should estabalish just how
experienced you are. Age does
play a factor with some people.
Perhaps you are a prodigy, someone ahead of
their age in certain matters.
However, if I were a sex
prodigy I doubt i'd be bragging too
loudly.
the reason age is a factor? Different
things are important to we humans at
different ages of our lives. What was
not important to us at the age of 20 could
be way important at the age of 40.
Quote:
it is respect,
experience, knowledge and whether or not
the guy gives a hoot or
not.
correct! And guess what. All of
this comes with age too who knows maybe
even you will mellow just a
bit.
2.
Quote:
age has nothing
to do with
it.
according to you and now I wonder what
world you're living in. In my
atmosphere age plays a part. But then
I do more listening than blabbing.
That knack comes with age too.
Quote:
there are young
guys and old guys who know exactly what
they are doing and know exactly how to
please their woman. There are also
young and old guys who could care less as
long as they get off.
well you got this one right...
3.
Quote:
age has nothing
to do with it.
yeah. When I was your age I didn't see
the big picture either... Just the corner
I was living in.
Three times in this one post you've said
age has nothing to do with it. Are you
trying to convince me or yourself?
Tell ya what. Live another 20 years and
get back to me on it.
. How does a man
like that gets pleasure 
??
I know he desires me and likes to caress
and kiss me and liked I mentioned before,
when we are together I feel in heaven :d ,
but I am concern about how is this going
to work out if the medicine is not
succesful?? 
but still likes him
a lot.
