Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
This Bothers Me a Bit... Posted: 09-21-04 11:13am
Lol sorry another post about kevins mom
but anyways... Kevins little brother told
us that his mom came home and said that
brooklyn looks like amy, which is her 2nd
child, and she lost her to sids. Im kinda
paranoid, but I feel like she is gonna
start to think that its her daughter,
reborn. I dunno, I just have all these
weird uneasy feeling about it, that I cant
put into words, and it bothers me. I feel
like she might get possesive or something,
but I know im just paranoid. Kevins
grandma thinks that "this is good healing
for her" and im "too young to know how
blessed I am". I never knew that knowing
how blessed you were came with age. And
then she started talking about something
about brooklyn and the cathelic religion,
when I dont want her to have anything to
do with it, no offense to anyone, I am
very very sorry, but I think its a pretty
messed up religion. Just my opinion, just
about the religion, not about the people.
I want brooklyn to baptised lutheran, and
to be brought up lutheran, and kevin is ok
with that. I have a feeling that kevins
family is really gonna get on my nerves.
Kevins brother is stopping over all the
time now, and the other morning he was
pounding on the door at like 7:30, and he
just wouldnt stop, and then he moved to
the patio door and started pounding on the
glass... After brooklyn had been up from
12:30-5:30 needing to be in somebodys
arms(it was our first night home). Ah im
sorry I just need to vent really bad.
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 09-21-04 11:41am
Its ok to be paranoid about e v e r y t h
I n g right now, and maybe you could try
talking to kevins brother about stopping
by so much, I mean you know he's just
being a caring person, but you have to
adjust to how things are right now, and if
they keep doing stuff you dont like and
you let them keep doing it you may get
stuck in a rut of a routine and thats not
good. Hope things lighten up for you...
I'm sure they will.
Meagan
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 09-21-04 12:28pm
I understand, huni, and I would be the
same way. Let her be with her, but make
sure to emphosize on like, look at my baby
girl, look at mommies girl, and say her
name a lot. That would help for me.
Good luck,
~jennifer~
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 09-21-04 14:36pm
Hun, i'll tell ya one thing... After
danica was born, I noticed the litlest
things about tims mom bothered me. Dont
get me wrong she a nice woman and all...
But things just started bothering me.
Like I would feed danica and 45 mins later
his mom would say to her "oh ur starving
arent u, yes ur starving" and that ticked
me off. Shed buy everything there is to
buy for danica so I have nothin to buy
her, and ho so much more! I dont knwo
what it is but u'll prolly notice she'll
be makin ya mad sometimes and u'll prolly
get upset over some things too... Im not
sure if this happens to lotsa people. But
it happened to me (i'm trying to get used
to it) but I guess its just the excitement
over becoming a grandparent.. Hopefully
she'll understand that its u.R baby and
she tends to u.R schedule since ur
breastfeeding. If she really wants to see
the baby, she can go see u at the
apartment becuz right now, u r trying to
get used to breastfeeding and being with a
baby and she has to learn to understand
that. Hope everything is well and cant
wait to see pics!
Shauna
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 09-21-04 14:39pm
Whoa. Just be careful about her. You
definitely need to make your own
decisions. Don't let her pressure you
into anything you don't wanna do!
Don't let her do anything you don't want!
And don't let her become cathloic! I
don't like the religion at alll either!
You are the mom! Make the decisions!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 09-21-04 18:03pm
Don't want to start a religion debate-this
forum's political enough as it is!!!
Last edited by sparklypixie12 on 09-21-04 18:25pm; edited 1 time in total
I'm sorry huni. My mom is catholic too.
Her entire family is and most of louisiana
people are also. Therefore, I am not
going to list why I don't like the
religion but I have a lot, a whole lot
against the religion. Not the people.
The religion. Sorry if I hurt you. It's
my opinion and that is one thing I don't
back down on. My opinon.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 09-21-04 18:24pm
Ok i'm sorry I know it's your opinion-but
it can be hurtful if you don't clarify
what you mean. I guess i'm defensive
because we have alot to deal with
here-england's not a catholic country for
a start so there's a bad history for us
catholics. But you have your reasons for
why you feel that way & so long as u
know there are only certain people who
make a religion bad (i.E. Bin laden has
given muslims a bad name here) anyway im
sorry cos ive distracted from april's
post!!! April-you make your choices-don't
let kevin's mom interfer-do whats right
for you & your girl :d
I disagree with the fundementals of
catholicism, not catholics themselves. I
know too many catholics, and you can't
dislike someone because of their religion.
Yea! Perfect! That is what I mean. I
don't like the religion and beliefs but I
love the people. All my mom's family and
my mom included are catholic. I love them
all. I don't love the religion!
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