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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Location: minnesota
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Sex Issues!
Posted: 10-04-03 11:48am
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Ok im 14......I have never had sex
before....But every one else is doing
it..Im wondering I should do it to just to
get it over witjh!
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Mommy_2_b
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Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Wait
Posted: 10-04-03 12:29pm
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Sweetie wait! Lol thats all I can say -
it may sound like everyones doing it but
they're not they just say it to be "cool"
thats what the kids at the junior high
down the road from me do anyway they'll be
like "hey I had sex with so and so on
saturday nite .. Meanwhile once that gets
back to me im think ing but I saw u at the
movies saturday nite and then I was
talking to ur parents and they said u went
to bed after that lol. Its better to just
wait it reduces chances of pregnancy and
stds. Please make a good and wise
decision your virginity isn't something to
just throw away. Lotsa of love and luck
~melissa
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Well
Posted: 10-04-03 12:59pm
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Sweeetie, if you are doing it for you
then, go ahead. But if you are doing it
"because everyone else is" (in caps) wait!
I think, personally you should wait. 14
is a little young to take on the
responsibility that sex involves. But you
have to do what is right for you and not
everyone else! If you feel ready and
confident in what you want to do go ahead
but pleease use protection! But do not do
it cuz "everyone else is".
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 48
Location: minnesota
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Pressure
Posted: 10-04-03 15:50pm
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Well I mean I want you have sex but then
again im scared it will hurt and stuff
like that but the pressure is somthin else
there is a lot of pressure...Im so
confused......I wish kids could be
pressured into going out for sprots not
having sex! I have been close to having
sex but backed down...I know it isint
right religously but does ne one every
really think about what god will do??? I
have that rpolly helps! For me at least
it does! But im taking your guyses advice
and not having sex till im married or
until im really ready and I will use
protection...So I cant fight against stds
and teen pregnancies! I can do this!!
Thank you guys so much..I have thought
about this for a long time..Thank you for
breaking the ice!
Breanna r kelly
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Darling
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Posted: 10-04-03 16:27pm
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Im so happy you made that decision. It's
wonderful that you, at 14, are so mature
about this. Best of luck!
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
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Location: minnesota
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Thanks!
Posted: 10-04-03 23:16pm
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Thank you darling......I want to know more
about you ...And others that are going
through pregnancies..I havent been paying
attention so tell me about your selves!
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PnaiMaMi
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 10-04-03 23:35pm
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Girl you should really wait. One day
you'll just say "i wish I didn't have
sex". I'm 17 and I know if I could turn
back the hands of time and have another
chance to choose whether I should lose my
virginity or not. I'd pick to not lose my
virginity. Since in the reality, I did,
now I wanna have a baby. :d
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
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Location: minnesota
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Posted: 10-05-03 18:21pm
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Well there are other issues but...For now
im not going to be a folower im going to
be a leader!
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 10-06-03 12:40pm
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That is so good! I wish alot of girls
were like you and wait! Its not all its
meant to be like it is in movies, all
romantic and nice and exciting. Its more
like that wam bam type. Like ok, well
that was dumb. It would be way more
special with your husband.
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Good
Posted: 10-06-03 15:27pm
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Good luck in whatever decision you make.
Only you know what is right for yourself.
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Location: minnesota
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Posted: 10-06-03 16:13pm
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Thanx bunched you guys.....You help
alot.....Im lucky I have you and friends
to ask questions to cause my mom will
spack on me if I even say the word
sex....I wonder what she would do if I got
pregnant?? Woofta bad image....Well
thanks you guys!
Breanna r kelly
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 10-10-03 09:21am
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If you have sex now chance are you will
regret doing it with the person that you
did and where you did it, I know that I
do. It was the worse thing ever and I
hate the kid now, he is a "freak" and has
std's....Ugh!
.:.: mesmerizeu15.:.:
aol sn: mesmerizeu15
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
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Posted: 10-12-03 18:23pm
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You didnt get an std from him did you??
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