Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
6 Week Postpartum Posted: 09-23-04 02:13am
Yesterday was my docs. Apointment. Well
what you guys don't know is that i've been
avioding sex with sheldon because i'm
scared of the pain. Elijah was a
c-section so I didn't care, but jeremiah
was vaginal. I don't know how you girls
did it, for those of you who have done it
already, and from what i've read so far
i'm the only one left. Anyway you
probably thinking what this has to do with
my appt., well needless to say the doctore
examine me and it hurt. Not like the
labor, but still it felt so sore in there
and now i'm even more scared. Because
that was just two fingers, I can't imagine
how painful it would be with his d**k. I
feel bad because he is after me everyday.
But the other thing is he doesn't like
condoms and i'm still not on birth control
since I haven't gotten my period yet. He
said that he will pull out, but you know
guys, plus i'm not stupid. I don't need
another kid right now, I wan't to finish
school. Does anybody know anything else
I could use until I get on birth control?
I never really used anything before since
I was ttc. I would appreciate the
info.
I've heard of female condoms, but i'm not
exactly sure how they wqork, and I
personally don't wanna know. There are
sponges and diaphragms, but they're not as
effect as the pill or condoms.
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 09-23-04 07:16am
Ya a female condom(cervical cap) read the
directions carefully, spermicides
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Mommy2Seany
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2004 Posts: 315 Location: Sewickley, PA
Posted: 09-23-04 11:58am
A female condom, why cant you get on
regular birth control though, I dont
understand. And I had a c-section and I
have heard of people who have had regular
babies, and I think you are just scaring
yourself, but in a way it is a good thing
because then you dont have to worry about
pregnancy. You boyfriend/husband(unsure)
should respect your decision and not
pressure you into anything that you are
unsure of...Good luck sweetie, I am here
if you need something, grandma works in
gyne!!
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Posted: 09-23-04 20:45pm
I can get on regular birth control, but I
have to wait to until I get my period.
As for my hubby pressuring me, I guess
it'd just been too long for him. In
reality I do want to be with him, i'm just
scared of the pain.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 09-23-04 22:03pm
My doc said once ur 3 weeks postpartum u
can start the pill anytime...
But heres a hitn for first time sex
after... If ur breatsfeeding (not sure if
u are??) u tend to be drier down there. I
didnt have sex till I was 7 weeks
postpartum (i didnt feel ready yet but
poor tim was going nuts) so peple told me
to get ky jelly and it actually helps. I
didnt hurt one but when we did it.
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