I am 19 years old and married to a man
that is 23 years old. I am in college
right now and only have about 2 years
left. But for some reason I wish that I
could be pregnant and get paranoid about
it. We are using condoms for protection
though. Anytime my body does something
different I always wonder "is this a sign
of pregnacy!" for example I have been
having a white discharge..So then I
wonder...What is that from? Sorry I am
so discriptive, I just don't know why I
want to be pregnant so bad! I know I am
young and am not ready yet~!
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Suzy
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Eager to Have a Family Posted: 10-04-03 19:00pm
Dear eunice,
the feelings you are having are completely
normal, there is nothing wrong with you at
all. You are obviously very settled and
happy in your relationship with your
husband to be yearning for a family.
Most women at some stage of their lives
have the urge to produce children, it is a
natural human response that ensures human
existance will continue. You said you
are in college at the moment and have 2
years to go, ideally if you could finish
your 2 years first then you would be in a
wonderful position to start a family.
Do you have any pets ? Sometimes a dog
or some other kind of pet can help fill
the gap when you have a little time before
you are able to have children. I have 3
dogs, 1 rottweiler and 2 shitzu's, the
rottweiler being the quieter of the 3, but
they are all beautiful and kept me
contented until I was able to have more
children. Just don't forget about them
once you do have children, dogs still need
attention and excercise aswell even once
bubby is born.
Good luck,
.::suzy::.
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Farah
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Posted: 10-05-03 00:37am
I definately experienced the same feelings
before becoming pregnant with my son. It
was so bad that I even cried when I was
around other babies. What I told myself
was that school is something you can
always do and pregnancy is not. The most
important thing to remember is that your
husband has to be in agreement. Having a
baby is a huge step in a marriage and you
should both be on board.
If your husband says it's ok, then do it.
I'm still in school and it isn't any
harder on me with a child. In fact, I
find it easier.
Good luck
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Eunice
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Thanks For Replying~! Posted: 10-05-03 10:41am
:d I was thinking a lot last night
(because for one I had a little insominia
because my husband was gone hunting last
night) and I was thinking that I really do
want to finish my education and become a
nurse before having a baby. I think that
the idea that I could have a family
because I am married and we are both very
responsible is just so tempting. I guess
what I think is that I will wait 5 years
like we both had planned ( he really
doesn't want one right now). So I guess
you cant perfectly time when you will have
a baby but I guess it is in god's hands
and I know when he wants me to have he
will make it happen he he!~ sincerely
eunice
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Eunice
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Oh I Almost Forgot! Posted: 10-05-03 10:43am
We are getting a puppy at christmas! So
that will be a start! It will be a male
orange and white britany spaniel from
eunice
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Avatani
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That's Great Posted: 10-05-03 15:15pm
Sounds like plan eunice.. You sound like
you've got your head on your shoulders.
Think of how much more oppertunities you
just gave to your future child/children.
Besides in two year's you'll be 21/22.
That's still plenty young enough to have a
child. Even if you work a couple/few
years.. That only makes you 23-26. Still
very young and very able to have children.
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Farah
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Posted: 10-05-03 16:22pm
After getting married, having a baby does
seem like the logical next step. I think
sometimes you just have to remind yourself
why you were deciding to wait to begin
with. If you finish school first, that's
just one less thing you'll have to worry
about after your baby's born. And you're
right, god will let you know when the
'right time' is.
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