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ParanoidFreak
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In Desperate Need of Some Peace of Mind!
Posted: 09-26-04 23:33pm
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Many of you will probably have a good
laugh at my paranoia, but i'll gladly
sacrifice my pride for some peace of mind!
In late august, my boyfriend and I had
dry sex. We both had jeans and underwear
on, and I know for a fact he did not
ejaculate until later. A few days later
we did it again, except he was fully
clothed and I was in my underwear.
Again, he didnt ejaculate on me. I got
my period about 5 days later, just as
expected, and it was completely normal.
We had dry sex a third time about a week
after that; we were both fully clothed,
and there was no ejaculation.
The reason i'm so paranoid is because
lately my stomach has been feeling
unusually tight and i've been mildly
cramping. I've also been getting
headaches, and my breasts are starting to
feel a little sore. I know that my tight
stomach could be anything, and that
everything else could be due to stress or
impending menstruation (i'm "supposed" to
get it october 8, but my cycle is so
irregular that it could come at anytime!).
But, like I said, i'm so paranoid that I
immediately think the worst.
I know I said I got a completely normal
period in september with cramps and all,
but i've read that sperm can live in a
woman's body up to 7 days, so even if you
do have your period, you could ovulate
early and still conceive with sperm from 7
days ago. I also said that he didnt
ejaculate, but I know that pre-cum can
cause pregnancy even if you don't have
sex, and although I dont think there was
any on his jeans, i'm still worried.
Is there anyone who can put my mind at
rest? Normally i'm much more sensible
than this, but pregnancy at this point in
my life is a true phobia of mine.
Thanks!!
Oh btw - I did take a home pregnancy test
early this past week and it was
negative...But i've read that these things
can be wrong 
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Kia
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Posted: 09-27-04 05:33am
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Oh boy.
If things happened exactly as you
described - I think this is one instance
where I can say "you are not pregnant".
Sperm are amazing little swimmers - but
not through jeans and underwear, they are
not magic.
I have to say for the benefit of any other
girls in this position, if you think this
is a means of getting pregnant - stop
fooling around.
If a guy ejaculated in your vagina
immediately before you during your period,
and you ovulated at that time, there is a
small chance you could get pregnant.
The woman's body during menstruation is a
hostile environment and not conductive to
long life of sperm.
Yes sperm can live in the womans body upto
around 5 days, but they actually need to
get into your body.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 09-27-04 06:50am
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Don't you think that if a woman could get
pregnant (a) through her clothes, and (b)
when the man does not ejaculate, that
there'd be a lot more pregnant women
around? None of us would be able to even
get on a crowded tube train.
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ParanoidFreak
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Posted: 09-27-04 09:39am
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I told you my story sounded idiotic!
Please bear with me, pregnancy is the one
thing I am truly afraid of at this stage
in my life. I appreciate both of your
replies, they have made me feel better
and the two of us have toned it down a bit
because of all this. In the end its
better to be safe than sorry!
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ParanoidFreak
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Posted: 09-28-04 10:59am
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So is everyone else who's read this thread
not responding because this is a stupid
worry? Lol but I need people to tell me
how dumb this is! It reassures me that
i'm just a worrywart who's stressing over
nothing. It makes me feel better.
Please respond! I'd really appreciate it
thanks!
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drewsmom
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Posted: 09-28-04 11:31am
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Once the sperm hits air and/or clothes it
will die. They need you to survive.
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Kia
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Posted: 09-28-04 12:14pm
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Drewsmom - sperm does not die as soon as
it hits air or clothes - how do you think
sperm banks work in that case?
Ok sperm won't live long and in this girls
case there wasn't any sperm anyway so that
is irrelevant.
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Kia
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Posted: 09-28-04 12:16pm
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Drewsmom - sperm does not die as soon as
it hits air or clothes - how do you think
sperm banks work in that case?
Ok sperm won't live long and in this girls
case there wasn't any sperm anyway so that
is irrelevant.
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Kia
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Posted: 09-28-04 12:16pm
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Drewsmom - sperm does not die as soon as
it hits air or clothes - how do you think
sperm banks work in that case?
Ok sperm won't live long and in this girls
case there wasn't any sperm anyway so that
is irrelevant.
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sammisa
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Posted: 09-28-04 12:25pm
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That is way too funny!! You dont have to
tone down your "dry sex". You will not
get pregnant that way.
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Kia
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Posted: 09-28-04 12:33pm
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Sorry for the triple post - the comp said
it wasn't sent 
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ParanoidFreak
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Posted: 09-28-04 14:19pm
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| sammisa
wrote: | | that is way too funny!!
You dont have to tone down your "dry sex".
You will not get pregnant that
way. |
lol the logical part of me knows
that...I'm not toning it down because I
think it will get me pregnant...I'm toning
it down because I know how worried I get
for every little thing, and if there is
another incident where I feel sick or
funny in any way, I wanna be able to know
in my head that its not pregnancy.
I'm such a tart lol
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bellax0x
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Posted: 09-28-04 15:25pm
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Wow, where did sex-ed go wrongg?!! 
<3
gaby
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ParanoidFreak
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Posted: 10-01-04 00:19am
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Please no one else respond to this. I
regret posting it in the first place.
Thanks.
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KissyBai912
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Posted: 10-01-04 14:52pm
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Sorry but I just have a question, how do
you have sex with jeans on?!?!?! Omg!
Ouch!!! Lol!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-14-04 20:18pm
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Sweetie your not pregnant stop stressing
yourself out its only gunna bring you down
be happy and worry free get on some
birthcontrol if it will make you feel
better..... Cosmo help haha stress causes
wrinklesss...!
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