Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Addicted to Jealousy? Posted: 09-27-04 16:56pm
Ok, well jason was a very jealous person
our whole relationship, and I hated it.
So.. He changed, andi hated it. I told
him I felt unloved.. So he became jealous
again over somthing and I yelled at him.
So obviously he got mad because I was
sending extremely mixed signals.
Today walking home I realized that his
jealousy is my security blanket in a way.
Its somthing thats been in our
relationship through the good and the bad,
somthing that has stayed the same.. So
when its not there, I get scared and
nervous that somthing is wrong and
somthings bad going to happen between
us.
Does anybody have advice as to how I can
get past having his jealousy as my
security blanket? Because I dont want it
to screw up our relationship
<3
gaby
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 09-27-04 17:02pm
Lol.. I understand how you feel.. You
kind of want them to miss you when you are
gone and be obsessive but at the same time
you dont' want to be smothered.. It's
understandable.. I think I am the same
way... This would be the convo
me "i'm going out to the strip club, you
alright with that?"
him "sure have fun"
me "so you don't care? Do you want to
get rid of me?"
him "no, I just know that you are not
cheating on me and you will come home to
me"
me "well fine.. I guess you don't love me
that much then"
him "well fine, I don't want you to go"
me "so you're trying to control me now?"
does that about sum it up? No offense
meant..
I am extremlyl jealous when it comes to my
relationship.. I'm the "come too close
and i'll bite your head off health forum"
kind the
one's that go up and fondle the guys nuts
or something when they see a broad coming
too close
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kkmauricio
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2004 Posts: 321 Location: nm
Posted: 09-27-04 17:09pm
Lol I am the exact same way I thinks its
normal if its not o well lol
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
I think it's okay to have jealousy as your
security blanket. He realizes you're a
female and females don't know what the
hell they want, and that's probably why he
loves you.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 09-27-04 18:09pm
I feel bad tho, because I get really mad
at him either way. But ill try to stop =x
lol
<3
gaby
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 09-27-04 18:11pm
If someone loves you...You expect them to
get jealous because they want to spend all
their time with you...But as that love
grows...The relationship gets more secure.
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does that about sum it up? No offense
meant..
