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Having Sex And Being Pregnant.... :-/ Posted: 09-29-04 20:41pm
Okay here it is... Please be willing to
answer to this I will love you ladies...
Okay i've always been up for having sex
and fooling around. But like now i'm 4
months and have like lost my sex drive.
My husband always wants to and whenever I
give in and do it.... (like we dont alot
he understands I dont really much care for
it now) although I enjoy it like when its
actually happening I start cramping
massively like 5 minutes into it and the
we stop and like afterwards (meaning like
now) I have like a massive stomach ache.
I dont always get the stomach aches but I
always do cramp. Did anyone else go thru
this? And if so does it pass? Sorry but
please answer...
Okay I may not give the right answer but
it's my opinion and I tried. If that is
the case maybe you should ease off on
having sex. I think it's normal for
cramping to happen. It's best to make a
call to you mid-wife or nurse just to be
on the safe side. It's also normal to not
want to have sex early in pregnancy I was
the same way too but after your second
trimester you'll start getting back to
your usual self.
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 09-30-04 12:22pm
Hey jess, cramping is normal for most
people, just if it gets bad you're
probably gonna have to lay off the old
for a while.
Even before I got pregnant sometimes I
would get a stomachache afterwards. We
only just started back doing it recently
(i just didn't feel like it)
all I can suggest is make sure you take it
easy - hard to explain but relax into an
orgasm rather than tensing into it, that
way instead of a hard orgasm you will get
a more soft body tingle.
If you aren't getting that far, amybe a
different position would be better, maybe
his willy is prodding into your cervix or
the angle of penetration is causing
pressure on your uterus, maybe try laying
on your side with him behind you (spoons)
or similar and preferably where the
penetration won't be too deep (ok some
like it deep and hard but most babies
prefer it if you go a bit gentle)
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