From a Desperate Gf, 21yr Old Bf, Viagra, Not Working!? Help Posted: 09-30-04 07:32am
Short sweet and to the point. My bf is
21, his had been given a sample of viagra
bc he cant keep hispenis hard when we are
about to have sex. By the ways hes a
virgin. Every time we are about to do the
deed (with out theviagra) is goes down.
He thinks its a mental thing bc he nervous
and his mind is so many other places. And
we have been goingthrough this for 2
months ways to get around it, I mean every
ways you can think of to calmhim down,
take his mind off the pressure ect.. So,
then he went to the doc. She gave him
viagra. He took it once, had all the side
affects ect... But once again, his penis
was har, but the second the pants come
down or we more to have have sex, right
back down!! But on viagra?!?!Whats going
on in his head? Is it mental or physical
at this point? Or is he gay? (doubful
but im runnin outta answers) and the sad
thing is he does it fine by him self, in
fact that night after I left he
masturbated!! Anyone have any answers!?!?
Please help! Thanks! Ps I have been
sexually active and and love my bf very
much and want to take it further and this
is really stressin me out!! Mentally,
physically, and sexually!! I might loose
it!! =)
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iannis50
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2004 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-30-04 11:19am
If he is trying to be with you he is not
gay. Erectile dysfunction is
independent on the sexual preference.
If the problem persists (without the
pills) he may need to do a medical
check-up and see a specialist (urologist)
that would not be content
just to prescribe him a pill.
The best place to go would be at the
cleveland clinic, ohio, at the
urology department. If they do not come
up with something serious
he can try at boston university or
university of san francisco.
Hopefully, he will get help at cleveland
clinic.
