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ArickaCharadia
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 2
Location: Atlanta
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Can Somebody Please Help Me???
Posted: 10-02-04 17:57pm
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Hey everyone...Well I need some help real
bad...Ok ive been with my boyfriend since
july and just this month we started having
sex...We had unprotected sex one time and
now im pregnant!!! But the thing is im
only 16!!! How im I supposed 2 tell my
mom? He has already told his mom and she
wasnt mad. Then she talked 2 me about it
and said its ok cuz she had my boyfriend
when she was only 14...Im sooooo scared
right now....Now I wish I never had sex
with him...Im just so scared and confused.
Could somebody please help me??? 
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-02-04 18:01pm
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Hey hun its ok to be scared, but you are
preggy and you cant go baack. You have to
tell your parents. You can ask your
boyfriend or a trusted friend to be tehre
if it helps. Good luck! Were here for
you!
<3
gaby
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 10-02-04 18:06pm
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Honey, it's definatly ok to be scared but
you need to talk to your mom. Yes, she's
might be upset at first but she'll get
over it. You can't do much now that
you're pregnant except take care of you
and your baby. Good luck!!
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan
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Posted: 10-02-04 18:32pm
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Hun its totally nomal to be scared..I have
been at this forum since I was 5 and a
half weeks and ive already had my baby
girl. I am only 16. I thought my mom was
going to kill me believe me I was so
scared!! Let me tell you..But she didnt
take it as bad as I thought..They usually
say ill kill you youll be kicked out blah
blah blah if you get pregnant but when
there faecd with it its alot diff. Yes my
mom was dissapointed but eventually she
grew to be more excited then me. And of
course your nervous but the day you see
your little angel it will all be worth it
trust me!
<3
marisa
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KLCmv616
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2004
Posts: 29
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Posted: 10-02-04 18:34pm
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Depending upon how you feel and only you
do what you need to do. You have many
questions you need to answer right now one
do you want it, if yes there are many
questions that go after that how are you
going to take care of it how will your
boyfriend help will your parents, they are
not obligated to by the way, many many
other questions and concerns too. But if
you do not want it then your questions are
what is the alternative such as abortion
or adoption its up to you, do not do
anything just because someone else wants
you to if you want this baby you can keep
it, it will be hard but thats places and
people that can help. But if you don't
want this baby do not let anyone make you
keep it just cuz they tell you to. Girl
you may not want to hear this but you are
only 16 so this boyfriend of yours will
probably not turn into your husband and
having a baby by someone is not going to
keep him locked down if its meant to be it
will be, but if not he will move on and
you can not stop him.... All I can say is
you really need to think
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-02-04 18:35pm
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Marissa.. Youve been here for that long?
Wow!
<3
gaby
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 10-02-04 18:51pm
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Hey sweetie-
take a couple deep breathes and relax.
I know you wish you didn't have sex, ive
been there and done that...But its going
to be okay. My parents were so dang
strict, but as soon as I told them about
it..Well actually my mom found the
ultrasound, but she found out nonetheless.
They didn't want me to have an abortion
or an adoption. It will be okay really..
And once you tell everyone we will be
there for you. The sooner you tell
someone the sooner you can get help for
that little one that is growing inside of
you. And I get stress that enough...How
important it is to get medical attention
to that baby. Hope things go well for
you!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-02-04 21:06pm
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Yes shes right you should see a dr asap
for both you and your baby
<3
gaby
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4107
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 10-03-04 02:02am
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You need to go to the doc thats for sure
if you want anyone to talk to about
anything i'm here!
Aim darlinjessa email to
tallylikeyeah@yahoo.Com
i'm only 18 and 14 weeks pregnant
when my parents found out they were
furious it took my mom like 2 months to
start treating me normal agian but its
gets better we get along perfectly now.
Just makes sure (if your keeping the baby)
that she knows you know how hard this is
and htat her hating you isnt going to make
you any less scared or aware shes going to
tell you you have no idea about anything
but no one can predict the future. You
need her by your side and hpefully she'll
realize that....
Reach me for anything...
<3 jess
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-03-04 06:57am
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Howre you doin huni? Are you still
stickin around?
<3
gaby
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ArickaCharadia
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 2
Location: Atlanta
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Posted: 10-03-04 10:45am
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First off I gotta say thank you 4 bein
there and acually showin me support!!!
Second off...I still havent told my mom
but I told my dad that lives in puerto
rico and he was so upset!!!! He yelled at
me!!!! Then I told him who my baby was
by..And he flipped out cuz he dont like
black people!!!! He said I should get an
abortion cuz my baby is gonna be mixed but
the thing is im mixed 2...Im white n
puerto rican...I wanna tell my mom more
than ever right now...But I need a good
time when its right to tell her!!! But
thanks 4 ur help and support!!!!
~~~aricka~~~
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